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love is more important than sex.
sex does not mean love.
I would rather be in a sexless relationship, than a loveless one.

We go long periods of time without sex sometimes. I go through phases where I just don't ever get in the mood. We get through it because we have more to our relationship than smurfing.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" True, but I think it's a shallow relationship that bases its happiness around sex. *shrugs* There will ... [snip!] ... for him right now. Okay, technically I am able, but he's nice enough to not want to put me in pain to fulfill a "vital need"."</blockquote>




Hierarchy of needs says sex is fairly vital

and it isn't shallow at a. a bad or non existing sex life easily can cause a relation to.fail

Quoting Loveislouder:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" True, but I think it's a shallow ... [snip!] ... able, but he's nice enough to not want to put me in pain to fulfill a "vital need"."</blockquote> Blowjob ? handjob?"

I think it's sad that you think that one person in a relationship should engage in sexual acts even though they are not willing/happy about it, in order to make the other one happy. My marriage is not based on that.

<blockquote><b>Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:</b>" love is more important than sex. sex does not mean love. I would rather be in a sexless relationship, than a loveless one."</blockquote>




Sex has a deep rooted emotional and intimate need being met. so sex and love can very much go.together. i coolant have a loving relationship without sex. or have sex without a loving relation

Quoting Loveislouder:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" True, but I think it's a shallow ... [snip!] ... needs says sex is fairly vital and it isn't shallow at a. a bad or non existing sex life easily can cause a relation to.fail"

We've come a damn long way since 1943... so if that is your only basis for your argument, I don't think it's exceptionally valid.

Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :" I think it's sad that you think that one person in a relationship should engage in sexual acts even ... [snip!] ... acts even though they are not willing/happy about it, in order to make the other one happy. My marriage is not based on that. "

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" I think it's sad that you think that one person in a relationship should engage in sexual acts even ... [snip!] ... acts even though they are not willing/happy about it, in order to make the other one happy. My marriage is not based on that. "</blockquote>




I think its sad women expect men to.just wait it out because they don't feel like it.

pregnancy doesn't mean an entirely broken body.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" We've come a damn long way since 1943... so if that is your only basis for your argument, I don't think it's exceptionally valid. "</blockquote>




Eh every psych class I've taken states.sex is a very psychological need....

Quoting Loveislouder:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" I think it's sad that you think ... [snip!] ... its sad women expect men to.just wait it out because they don't feel like it. pregnancy doesn't mean an entirely broken body."

Luckily for me, my husband sees me as more than just a "body".  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" Luckily for me, my husband sees me as more than just a "body".  "</blockquote>




Im sure he does


he also probably gets off to porn daily since he doesn't get it elsewhere.

the intimate bond during sex is important to me. i.couldn't do a sexless relationship. i find it smurfed up if a guy needs and asks for sex he's annoying...if a girl is rejected its so sad. poor thing

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I think it's smurfed up, that people believe in order to have a happy relationship, you need sex.
There are more important things in life.
Is it unhealthy for a relationship when the people in it have different views/wants/ needs, yes, but it's inaccurate to believe that a relationship that lacks sex, lacks happiness.

Quoting Loveislouder:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" Luckily for me, my husband ... [snip!] ... i find it smurfed up if a guy needs and asks for sex he's annoying...if a girl is rejected its so sad. poor thing blah"

I never once said I was annoyed by my husband nagging me for sex. That's a generalization you placed on all women for reasons I don't understand. Honestly, maybe you should take one less psych 101 class and one more women's studies class... because your view of women is pretty rank.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :</b>" I never once said I was annoyed by my husband nagging me for sex. That's a generalization you placed ... [snip!] ... you should take one less psych 101 class and one more women's studies class... because your view of women is pretty rank. "</blockquote>




Lol


this.site. go.through a few pages of this area.

so many women bitching about sex...

Quoting SaraSaraBoBara:" honestly...we didn't have sex the last 2 months of my pregnancy. and we were the happiest we've ever ... [snip!] ... been. although, i'm not sure if it was the no sex....we seemed to be happier than ever together throughout my entire pregnancy."

I feel the same. We barely had sex my entire pregnancy because we were told "threatened miscarriage" 3 different times, I had bleeding issues up until 25 weeks, etc. So rather than risking it, we just didn't have it. I think we MAYBE did it 10 times during the entire pregnancy, if that. Honestly it didn't bother me just because I wanted to make sure my baby was safe rather than get "pleasure". lol And even now.... I'm so busy all the time with my kids, work, school, etc. I don't think about sex 24/7.