Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Not what I meant at all. The other poster just got her knickers in a knot because of one of my other ... [snip!] ... of those questions are being asked out of pure laziness and that some wives enable their husbands to be needy and act helpless."
I will admit to "babying" my fiance a little. He works 50 hours a week, at least, and I am a SAHM. So yes I do his laundry, cook his meals, clean the house, and grocery shop. ETC
He takes care of us in all kinds of ways and I like to take care of him. Doesn't make him helpless because he doesn't know where the toilet paper is. It means that I keep it stocked most of the time.
It works for us.