Quoting Chim Richalds:" Disagree. What about these comments about poking holes in condoms? Is he supposed to check for holes? ... [snip!] ... without the girl knowing and she got pregnant. Is that the girl being stupid and irresponsible because she wasn't on the pill?"
Lmao, wow your whole post made me lol really! I didn't really read the comments in the previous pages but first of all, if a girl goes and takes the condom out of the trashcan and tries to get pregnant off of that then she needs to go get mentally checked. That's going way too far lol.
Secondly, what are you talking about poking holes? WTF. I've never heard of that. I'm sorry but if I was a guy who didn't want to get a girl pregnant. I'm not going to leave a condom with sperm anywhere near. I'd either flush that smurf or just spill the sperm in the toilet and rinse the condom as crazy as that might sound.
When DH and I met we used to check for holes in the condom after having sex. We didn't want to get pregnant so we would spill the sperm in the toilet and the fill it with water to make sure there were no holes. The one time there was a hole in the condom we went ahead and bought Plan B. It literally never took no more than 30 seconds to a minute.
It takes two to tango. If a woman who doesn't want to get pregnant needs to do everything possible to prevent it, why should men not have the same responsibilities?
If it didn't cross his head that he was with a pyscho who'd go as far as to poke holes on the condom or get the condom out of the trashcan just to get pregnant than it's his problem.
It pays to be safe!