re: mjt♥

Uh...no. Because 1, i'm not psycho. And 2, I would want to experience the joy of trying for a baby with someone who wants it as badly as I do. Doing it behind their back takes the fun out of it.

I know a girl who wasn't ready for a baby. She was in college and getting ready to join the Air Force, her life long dream. Her boyfriend didn't want her to go so he poked holes in the condom. She found out she was pregnant and had to put her plans on hold. Now I doubt she will ever join the AF like she wanted. But she is happy being a mother and they are still together.

Smurffing thing for him to do though.

Nooo.
I guess because I'm not crazy.
BUT, when SO and I found out I was pregnant, his little buddy from work and his girl tried to get pregnant.. they were like 18 at the time. I remember thinking it was so weird to try that young when him and I were freaking out.
His buddy backed out of that when he realized how much SO was spending on baby supplies. The girl ended up pregnant and that kid STILL swears up and down she poked holes in his condoms.
Crazy stuff, eh? Lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mayhem.:</b>" No   But I've gotta say, I think you would've gotten more honest answers with a poll. I think I ... [snip!] ... I think I remember seeing a BG poll like this somewhat recently and there were people who said yes, if I remember correctly. "</blockquote>



I was going to add a poll, but I forgot.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Pistol Amber:</b>" Girls around here do that all the time to the Marines. Sheesh if you want to be a military wife so bad how about you make him love you."</blockquote>




No one better do that to my BIL. He's a pretty sexy Marine haha.

Quoting Pistol Amber:" Girls around here do that all the time to the Marines. Sheesh if you want to be a military wife so bad how about you make him love you."

I live in an Army town, so I've seen it, too. Sigh...

Also I dated a guy got me pregnant on purpose. I had been on antibiotics and new that my BC would not be working while I was on it. He literally poked a hole in the condom so it would rip. I know this because after he and I broke up ( a week or so later) I hacked into his email for his mother 3 weeks later after I had found out I was pregnant, and read an email he wrote about it to his friend. It was dated before I had been on the medicine. He said said in the email he felt our relationship slipping away and he felt this was the only way to keep me in his life. What effing psycho. I ended up having a miscarriage and he ended up in prison for God knows what. Even though I was depressed for weeks I ended up feeling like maybe it was a blessing in disguise because he was bad news.

Sorry for all of the typos I am exhausted. Pap and a flu shot in one day add melatonin on that and you get meeeee right now

<blockquote><b>Quoting Pistol Amber:</b>" Also I dated a guy got me pregnant on purpose. I had been on antibiotics and new that my BC would not ... [snip!] ... Even though I was depressed for weeks I ended up feeling like maybe it was a blessing in disguise because he was bad news."</blockquote>




Wow, & yeah God does have a plan for everything!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Pistol Amber:</b>" Girls around here do that all the time to ... [snip!] ... bad how about you make him love you."</blockquote> No one better do that to my BIL. He's a pretty sexy Marine haha."</blockquote>


My ex husband (whom I dated on and off in high school) tried to say I trapped him into marrying him by getting pregnant. But he was stationed 2 hours away from here. I told him if I seriously wanted to trap a military guy I would have stayed in our home town and trapped some young "wet behind the ears" boot and not drove 2 hours away.

I don't think many would admit but I think its more common than people think. My friend is currently trying to get pregnant on purpose and her bf really doesn't want another baby. Its all bad news. Shes telling him shes on BC but she isn't....
I think its really only a matter of time till she gets pregnant and he leaves her.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Pistol Amber:</b>" Also I dated a guy got me pregnant on purpose. ... [snip!] ... it was a blessing in disguise because he was bad news."</blockquote> Wow, & yeah God does have a plan for everything!"</blockquote>




It took that happening for me to believe that!

Hell no. Accidentally getting pregnant is one thing, because each party is equally at fault for it happening and there is no trickery. I could not imagine trying to bring a child into this world if I knew that my boyfriend did not want a child. It is unfair to the future child and the partner.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ashleeoh:</b>" Hell no. Accidentally getting pregnant is one thing, because each party is equally at fault for it happening ... [snip!] ... a child into this world if I knew that my boyfriend did not want a child. It is unfair to the future child and the partner."</blockquote>



Yeah accidentally getting pregnant is one thing, DS was a beautiful accident. I couldn't handle the guilt of getting pregnant on purpose.

Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Pistol Amber:</b>" Girls around here do that all the time to ... [snip!] ... bad how about you make him love you."</blockquote> No one better do that to my BIL. He's a pretty sexy Marine haha."

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