Quoting Asher's mommy [Expecting :" Maybe she tells you to leave because she wants to leave your dad and doesn't feel strong enough? Maybe ... [snip!] ... to be in that situation, too? I know it's obviously not the right advice, but it sounds like she may be reacting out of fear. "
Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" Well if every time you talk about him you are complaining then what do you expect?"I talk high of him more than I complain. She loves him, but every time we argue (which is rare) she wants to try and say there's something wrong with our relationship.
Quoting Ryloonjimama:" I was actually just thinking this... maybe she doesn't want you to end up stuck in a smurffy situation you can't get out of... like it seems like she is?"Could be. Idk. And only reason I hung up was to chill and avoid another argument, childish or not... it was something I felt was needed to be done.
Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" She's probably worried things may end up like they did for her and she wants better for you. I know the ... [snip!] ... seem like the best but I would assume she has better intentions behind it than just wanting you to throw happiness away."I can understand if she's worried about that but saying something like this every time we even have a minor argument over whatever is just a bit uncalled for, in my opinion. Good intentions or not.
Quoting ~Stephany~:" Hey hey hey! Dogs are not stupid. Well mine aren't."Lol true. Dogs are not stupid. Probably the smartest animals there are aside from chimpanzees and other monkeys.
Quoting BlueEyes30:" Before I complain about my husband to my mom, I always say "don't forget there's two sides to my story!" ... [snip!] ... do that, then maybe you shouldn't be complaining to her - some people are incapable of hearing both sides without judging."That's something I'll definitely start doing.