re: am i wrong?

Quoting A❤T=P+[It's a Girl:" Did she tell you why she doesn't want your 3 year old there? Is he overly aggressive or misbehaved?"

She didnt give a reason, and i asked if it would be alright if jase came and she said no with no explanation so i told her we wouldnt be attending.
She shouldnt expect me to come without him. Im the only one home with him in the day. And he is actually a pretty good kid he is three so obviously not perfect but he is a normal 3 year old

Quoting Super Auntie.:" She didnt give a reason, and i asked if it would be alright if jase came and she said no with no explanation ... [snip!] ... with him in the day. And he is actually a pretty good kid he is three so obviously not perfect but he is a normal 3 year old"

That's odd, that she invited the baby, but not your older son.  

Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" That's odd, that she invited the baby, but not your older son.  "

they are my nephews its a long story but it is odd, i really dont get it and i think thats why im upset.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Super Auntie.:</b>" She didnt give a reason, and i asked if it would be alright if jase came and she said no with no explanation ... [snip!] ... with him in the day. And he is actually a pretty good kid he is three so obviously not perfect but he is a normal 3 year old"</blockquote>




Thats so rude. I wouldn't attend either.
Is it a wedding?

Quoting Super Auntie.:" they are my nephews its a long story but it is odd, i really dont get it and i think thats why im upset."

Ahh so the children in question are your nephews not your children. I guess, hence the name...  .

Could ANYONE be going to the party that has any relation to your older nephew(if they have different dads that is), that she wouldn't want him to be around maybe? ( Idfk I'm grasping here).

Quoting phalAngie:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Super Auntie.:</b>" She didnt give a reason, and i asked if ... [snip!] ... not perfect but he is a normal 3 year old"</blockquote> Thats so rude. I wouldn't attend either. Is it a wedding?"

It's a birthday party. Lol

Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" Ahh so the children in question are your nephews not your children. I guess, hence the name...  . ... [snip!] ... older nephew(if they have different dads that is), that she wouldn't want him to be around maybe? ( Idfk I'm grasping here). "

no sadly his father is unknown. Her child is here all the time i honestly and truly do not understand lol. I really wish I did because I dont want to be an ass lol.
And anyone I wouldnt want him to be around I wouldnt want fat head around either lol!

Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" It's a birthday party. Lol"

ahh I'm blind   
Just reminded me of a wedding where 18 and under weren't allowed

Quoting phalAngie:" ahh I'm blind    Just reminded me of a wedding where 18 and under weren't allowed "

lol well that i would understand!!! I could really use one of THOSE nights hahaha

Quoting Super Auntie.:" no sadly his father is unknown. Her child is here all the time i honestly and truly do not understand ... [snip!] ... did because I dont want to be an ass lol. And anyone I wouldnt want him to be around I wouldnt want fat head around either lol!"

Lol. Good point. Idk. I wouldn't let the baby go then. Smurf her. She can't pick and play favorites, especially with a 3 year old who will NOTICE he's not invited. Ya know?

Granted as they get older, they will be invited to separate things and that's fine, they will realize it, but I mean... He's a baby, I thought at first she invited the older one and NOT the baby... So it's backwards of what I would have expected.

Quoting phalAngie:" ahh I'm blind    Just reminded me of a wedding where 18 and under weren't allowed "

Haha. It's okay. I was like what an ODD question.

I've done it numerous times though.  

Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" Lol. Good point. Idk. I wouldn't let the baby go then. Smurf her. She can't pick and play favorites, ... [snip!] ... He's a baby, I thought at first she invited the older one and NOT the baby... So it's backwards of what I would have expected. "

Yeah i mean as they get older they will be able to grasp it but hes still so young that i just feel why not make life fair while i can lol

Quoting Super Auntie.:" no sadly his father is unknown. Her child is here all the time i honestly and truly do not understand ... [snip!] ... did because I dont want to be an ass lol. And anyone I wouldnt want him to be around I wouldnt want fat head around either lol!"

just flat out ask her.