re: Help!! I got pregnant to spite my parents

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jennybananna:</b>" I had a friend graduate at 16. She graduated a year early and was already the "baby" in the class."</blockquote>




I know it happens but it's not typical

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzy Payne:</b>" I was out of school, I'm actually starting ... [snip!] ... The same reason most people who are really in love get married."</blockquote> How were you out of school at 15/16?"

I got married at 17. Our 1 year anniversary is in April, I said I got pregnant when we were almost a year meaning I'm pregnant now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lizzy Payne:</b>" I got married at 17. Our 1 year anniversary is in April, I said I got pregnant when we were almost a year meaning I'm pregnant now. "</blockquote>




Ok

Quoting Lizzy Payne:" I agree with necessary evil, like if the baby will be in terrible pain everyday if given birth to."

Yes, there's definitely situations like that. But there are others, too. For example, let's say there was a woman who was raped and became pregnant. It wouldn't be fair for her or the child to force her to stay pregnant with a child that could easily be perceived as the "rapist's spawn". There have been scenarios of women resenting their children due to their being a product of rape, which causes considerable damage for that child as well as the mother. In other cases, there's a family of six on welfare struggling to get by. Sometimes they have barely any money to eat, the father is walking the streets of Philadelphia holding a sign asking for spare change from strangers. The mother finds out she's pregnant again, and knows this child couldn't be supported financially and will worsen the circumstances this family is in.
See what I mean?
I used to consider myself Pro-Life, I thought abortion was selfish and wrong as well. But you know, it's best to look at such situations from another perspective. To see why it truly is necessary, as ugly as it can be perceived. There's really no way you can judge what kind of situation that abortion would be the right option for, there's no way to tell.

Please don't mind the size of this post, I didn't mean to make it this long.  

Quoting Life's an Adventure:" Yes, there's definitely situations like that. But there are others, too. For example, let's say there ... [snip!] ... right option for, there's no way to tell. Please don't mind the size of this post, I didn't mean to make it this long.  "

I just think its super selfish because she done it on purpose, you know?
I mean, I dont think he baby should be treated like that because she was being disrespectful to her parents and junk.
Thats all I was trying to say but other people got so...............grr!!

Quoting Lizzy Payne:" I just think its super selfish because she done it on purpose, you know? I mean, I dont think he baby ... [snip!] ... she was being disrespectful to her parents and junk. Thats all I was trying to say but other people got so...............grr!!"

I can understand you feeling that way, what the OP did was incredibly selfish. I can only hope she makes better choices for herself and the baby in the future, and if abortion's what she chooses...well, in the end there isn't much we can do about that. I don't prefer to think that a baby is better off not existing, but I don't feel that the OP's in a great place right now as it is. She and that baby could definitely be in some trouble.

A lot of people here are strongly Pro-Choice, they most likely took offense to your stating that abortion is selfish. True, there are a few other people on this site that go off the handle when you say you're Pro-Life alone. But it's your saying that abortion was selfish that seems to be getting you in some trouble is all.
I'd just be careful of how you say abortion is selfish.

Quoting Lizzy Payne:" I just think its super selfish because she done it on purpose, you know? I mean, I dont think he baby ... [snip!] ... she was being disrespectful to her parents and junk. Thats all I was trying to say but other people got so...............grr!!"

I'd rather someone like OP abort because if that poor kid is born you know that it would end up abused or neglected. Anyone who aborts has a really good reason... they don't want a kid! Simple as that.

Well, there's no guarantee that the child will end up abused or neglected. It's likely that one or the other would happen, yes, but there's no absolute guarantee.

I would agree that given how far along she is, she probably should give the child up for adoption though.

Wow are you telling me i'm sixteen and way smarter than you i used both kinds of protection and i now have an almost 3 month old beautiful daughter on the twenty-third i didn't plan it to get at my parents my parents new i had sex that is why i had protection but for you to bring an innocent life into the world and not even want it is selfish as hell i feel utter pain for your unborn child i did the responsible thing and i raise my daughter along with her father i pray that you never get pregnant again because for you to bring a baby into this world under those circumstances is down right awful and i know i'm not any better for the simple fact is i'm sixteen but damn how stupid do you got to be your not going to find anyone like you on here that is for sure!

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Lol.  

i think once you move out and look back you will see why your parents treated you like that but that is no excuse to get pregnant and ruin a unborn childs life already maybe you should give the baby up for adoption so you can actually see what mistake you have made when you have to hand your baby to another family. im sure it will hurt you more then its gonna to hurt your parents. but with whatever you choose best of luck and try not to be so stupid about your choices..

Quoting Bronwyn Eliza:" And now I dont want the baby. Im 17. My parents are the worst human beings on this earth. They never ... [snip!] ... take it all back. My friends are slowly leaving me and my grades are getting worse. I just need some people like me to talk to"

Quoting Spanky P McTitties:" Obvious troll is obvious. OP Troll Level: Intermediate"

 

Oh my GAWD. Holy hell! Is this for real?

Quoting AppleDumplin:" Oh my GAWD. Holy hell! Is this for real?"

Random, but I really like your screenname