re: Help!! I got pregnant to spite my parents

<blockquote><b>Quoting M'aiq:</b>" Sneaking out of my bedroom to get drunk was my go to spite tactic."</blockquote>




Right? Whatever happen to sneaking out to get high ot drunk.

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting M'aiq:</b>" Sneaking out of my bedroom to get drunk was my ... [snip!] ... to get drunk was my go to spite tactic."</blockquote> Right? Whatever happen to sneaking out to get high ot drunk."

That's too mainstream.

I hope this isn't real... :/ it says she's due May 29th. but damn why would you get pregnant in spite of them? that would have never even crossed my mind at 17, sure everyones parents piss them off I'm sure but that's just stupid getting pregnant in spite of them. But Good Luck

Quoting L☮J:" I got pissed off god knows how many times at my parents as a teenager....Getting pregnant never crossed my mind to "get back" at them  "

  

To spite my grandmother (she raised me) I smoked pot and had sex to get back at her. But even then I made sure that they wore a condom. I feel sorry for your unborn child.

Who in the hell even thinks about bringing an innocent life into this world just because they don't like their parents? This makes me lose all sorta of faith in humanity...

Op, adoption or abortion. Not much else you can do now.

wow its sad you had to bring an innocent life into this mess..

you know my parents didnt let me do ANYTHING at your age either, prom...nope,
go out with friends? never
i couldnt sit on the furniture, i ate dinner on the floor in the hallway while everyone else sat at the table. getting pregnant never crossed my mind. i moved out the second ( literally) i was legally 18 and never went back. you will be on your own before you know it and instead you had a baby O.o im still in shock.

your best option at this point is adoption if yor far along... if you dont want it know, you wont want it when its screaming in the middle of the night and your completely exhausted.

Quoting Bronwyn Eliza:" And now I dont want the baby. Im 17. My parents are the worst human beings on this earth. They never ... [snip!] ... take it all back. My friends are slowly leaving me and my grades are getting worse. I just need some people like me to talk to"

that is a horrible irresponsible thing to do! give that poor child up for adoption and you need to get some help you are punishing the child not your parents

Quoting Boobie On Demand:" Who in the hell even thinks about bringing an innocent life into this world just because they don't like ... [snip!] ... their parents? This makes me lose all sorta of faith in humanity... Op, adoption or abortion. Not much else you can do now."

17 year olds, apparently.

Quoting Bronwyn Eliza:" They wont talk to me about the baby my dad is barely talking to me at all. My guidance counselor at school is helping me out a lot but other than her i have no one"

That makes the situation even worse, if they wont help you support the child, and you don't even want it, where does that leave you?
That is a helpless life inside of you, you may not want it, but you created it, and it is your responsibility to do what is right for it.
There are many wonderful people who would love to adopt your baby and can give it an amazing life.
Have your counselor set you up with or direct you to an adoption agency.

Well, the only advice I can offer is a listening ear. PM if you need to vent or someone to talk to, I'll try my best to listen.  

Quoting Hipster Sly:" 17 year olds, apparently."

All I thought about when I was 17 was getting into college...   sofa king lame.

This is easily the stupidest, most unintelligent thing I've ever heard of someone doing. Even dumb teenagers. Did you even think about that fact that your spite pregnancy would result in a HUMAN BEING, or that you would be that human being's MOTHER?!?! You definitely take the cake for short sighted, idiotic, impulsive, jackass teenager of the year. Way to go!
I'm pretty sure you're too far along to abort, unfortunately, so the only thing you should even be considering at this point is adoption. You're obviously WAY too childish and idiotic to be a parent so do the only decent thing you can for th chiod you idiotically created and give her to a family that wants her and for the right reasons. You know, like they want to give a child a good life and opportunities, Not because they are mad at their parents.

Quoting bbbt:" All I thought about when I was 17 was getting into college...   sofa king lame. "

I don't really remember my senior year of high school.

I don't see the difference here in what she did to spite her parents and what a lot of women do to keep their husbands/SOs.

Neither want a baby but they do it in an attempt to control another human being into feeling/acting how they want them to.

Obviously, it isn't a great idea but doesn't make her the stupidest person alive. She wanted an aspect of her life to control since her life wasn't her own - she got that. Now, she is going to just have to figure out what to do.