Any April Mommy's Due with there 2nd?

I am Due April 11th with my 2nd..I am having another girl who will be named Chloe Shay... My oldest is Lillian and she will be 2 in June. I am having trouble with my relationship with my husband. just to fill you in a lil bit he wasn't here for Lilly birth and totally missed out on this part of me being prego due to being apart of the military. The funny part is .. it took him 4 months to knock me up with our first and it only took him four months of being home to bless me with another..He hasn't been right since we found the baby is a girl..Plus our sex life has stopped but not on my part or our oldest.. I am feeling unloved.. what should i do

im due in april too   second baby boy this time ..i already have a girl ...   lol and my sex life aint so great either mainly cause of me though......also cause he asks for it like evry day and annoying the smurf out of me   lol so i just tell him im tired   but he usually falls asleep before me   ....honestly if he didnt ask so many dam times i would be more than willing to "GET IT ON " lol

I am due April 11 with #2 also.   Another girl. My first daughter will be 2 in August. Whew ... busy women we will be.

I'm sorry to hear about your hubs. Have you tried talking to him about it?

im due April 6th with my second... another boy! My oldest is boy is 7! and your not alone with the sex life. my sex drive completely dropped with this pregnancy.

Im due on the 11th April with my second too  
Our first was born 19th Dec 2009 - Elouise, born at 42weeks (5 1/2 hours before i was due to be induced.
Were expecting a boy this time  
With my first i had a distressed birth where myself and Elouise could have died, i lost alot of blood (not far off needing a blood transfusion) and Elouise got distressed and had to be rushed to theatre to prepare for an emergency C-Section but they gave me an episotomy and i pushed her out at 9cm dialated weighing a healthy 8lb 7 1/2oz but was too small for Tiny Baby clothes...
Im hoping this birth will be alot less complicated and i am requesting not to be left 2 weeks over my due date this time.

Hope your all well   xxx

im due april 5th put im going in march 29th for c-section this is my second i had a boy in 2010 and now im pregnant with a girl nameing her hannah my marrige is ok we have are ups and downs but if your not in a happy marrige then get a divorce i am allways seeing alot of marriges fail when there spouse is in the military its sad but true! Just do what is best for you and your children.

I'm due April 12th (my birthday) with my second! I'm expecting a girl and I have a 10 yr old son. I can relate to the no sex thing. I'm horny all the time but he says it feels weird. Even if we're not having sex I would like for him to be more affectionate. My emotions are all over the place and I just want to feel loved as well.

I know how you feel. I am pregnant with our second due April 22 and my husband is gone. We found out that he was going over when I was about 3 months pregnant and it was the most horrible feeling in the world. As far as the no sex thing that is total normal for pregnancy. With our first we were going at it until 2 week before she was born, but with this one i am just not in the mood or he is not feeling it. But what to do about not feeling loved is that you need to talk to him and tell him what you expected of him. He is sitting there thinking that you have done this one time before with out him and you don't need his help. So asked him to do thing ( rub you feet, cook you dinner) Get him into and excited about the pregnancy (ask him to feel that baby kick, take family pic with the belly)
I hope that some of this help.

Quoting Krissy31:" I'm due April 12th (my birthday) with my second! I'm expecting a girl and I have a 10 yr old son. I can ... [snip!] ... sex I would like for him to be more affectionate. My emotions are all over the place and I just want to feel loved as well."

I am feeling the same..I just dont know how to get him to be more like that.

Quoting KayRey:" I know how you feel. I am pregnant with our second due April 22 and my husband is gone. We found out ... [snip!] ... excited about the pregnancy (ask him to feel that baby kick, take family pic with the belly) I hope that some of this help. "

I have tried to talk to him and he is very old fashion when it comes to doing stuff for me..i stay at home and tend to the family cook clean what ever is needed, he works and comes home and just does what ever..its like i shouldnt ask him for anything

Quoting Mommy of 1 1/2  :" im due in april too   second baby boy this time ..i already have a girl ...   lol and my sex life aint ... [snip!] ... falls asleep before me   ....honestly if he didnt ask so many dam times i would be more than willing to "GET IT ON " lol"

I wish we could get it on.. its the only thing that relaxes me and makes me feel like we are close.. I can't be close to him in any other way

Quoting Julie Helms:" I am due April 11 with #2 also.   Another girl. My first daughter will be 2 in August. Whew ... busy women we will be. I'm sorry to hear about your hubs. Have you tried talking to him about it?"

I have and he just blame it on me. and stress..bills and me not working..i have told him that it is just best for me to be here at home with our oldest cuz we can't afford child care and family to watch our daughter

Quoting Emma Ogborne:" Im due on the 11th April with my second too   Our first was born 19th Dec 2009 - Elouise, born at 42weeks ... [snip!] ... will be alot less complicated and i am requesting not to be left 2 weeks over my due date this time. Hope your all well   xxx"

sound like our first two were big ones..Lilly came out at 361/2 weeks at 8lb 8.8oz.. so i wonder how big this one will be

we are 4-2

Quoting Kaci Menchaca:" I am Due April 11th with my 2nd..I am having another girl who will be named Chloe Shay... My oldest is ... [snip!] ... the baby is a girl..Plus our sex life has stopped but not on my part or our oldest.. I am feeling unloved.. what should i do"

I would consider you guys go to conseling. You don't need troubles around 2 little ones. This is what happened with my first and he didn't want to go so I got a divorce and am remarried very very happy and am having baby number 2 which my other son is 14 yrs old. huge age gap. good luck to you and remember to always share your differences away from the kids because it does effect them and they hear everything,