re: Any April Mommy's Due with there 2nd?
posted 1st Feb
Quoting Kaci Menchaca:" I am Due April 11th with my 2nd..I am having another girl who will be named Chloe Shay... My oldest is ... [snip!] ... the baby is a girl..Plus our sex life has stopped but not on my part or our oldest.. I am feeling unloved.. what should i do"
im also having my second, due april 12th
posted 1st Feb
Quoting Kelsie Eden:" im also having my second, due april 12th "
Awesome Congrats..good luck
posted 2nd Feb
due april 20th with my second. i had my little girl on halloween in 2009, and im pregnant with a little boy! have one extremely happy big sister, just like mommy & daddy. im engaged' to the father of both my kids since i was 15 years old, which i had my first at 15 also, which is a fact, no matter what age you are, you can still raise a child(: we have our ups and downs, but if i wouldnt be go grouchy all the time, maybe it would be better, but he just brushes off the attitude and tells me everything will be alright. truly blessed i'd say. sex life, isnt like it was when i wasnt pregnant, but i have a toddler in my bed every night, and a belly in front of me for 11 more weeks. it will all be back to normal. perhaps try talking to your husband.quote
posted 12th Feb
I wouldnt be so worried. men tend to want little boys and when they hear it is a girl they get a little upset but once he sees his beautiful baby girl he will be alright lol. quote
posted 12th Feb
Quoting BreeMomma!:" I wouldnt be so worried. men tend to want little boys and when they hear it is a girl they get a little upset but once he sees his beautiful baby girl he will be alright lol. "
My husband was extremely excited when we found out our first was a HEALTHY baby girl.
We didn't care what we had.. As long as she was healthy.. and with this pregnancy.. He actually wanted another girl. Probably because we already had one and could simply reuse most of the stuff we already had. But he's happy with a boy too. So I think it just really depends on the guy. Not all men prefer one over the other.
posted 13th Feb
I'm due April 17th with my second, a girl this time. My hubby and I have a little boy who will be 2 on May 4th. My hubby was deployed for half of my pregnancy with our son, but he took R&R around my due date so he could hopefully catch it. He got to spend 9 days with our son before he had to leave for another 6 months. Our sex life isn't the greatest either, but with him being in Combatives level 2 right now, he's just too sore. When he's not doing anything to stressful, it's my fault because I'm just not in the mood. Try talking to him and asking him what's bothering him. My hubby seems pretty down for the longest when we found out we were having a girl. He was just worried about finances, and how much it would cost to raise another baby especially a baby girl. I wish you and your hubby the best! Congrats on the second little girl. quote
posted 24th Feb
Im expecting baby #3 april 27th, We have a 3 year old and an 18 month old both girls we are finally having a boy and the hubby really couldnt be any happier.... i totally understands everyones problems with intercourse.. its non exsistant in my house, i feel terrible but i just am never in the mood and feel like a gigantic whale lol. He understands but i feel bad.quote
posted 1st Mar
I am also pregnant with my second and it's also a girl. Her name will be Abigail Leigh. Due date is April 10th. My son will be 5 on April 16th so yes I like my April babies. My husband is also in the military and he will miss the birth by 4 months. He and my son are really close and it's really hard on both of them being separated. He is really excited about having a daughter but he worries too much so this should be fun. quote
posted 4th Mar
i'm due april 22nd with my 2nd baby girl. my marriage is great. the sex life is not so good though due to the pregnancy because he thinks he's gonna poke the babies head or something lol. but if your not happy in your marriage then you should find someone who makes you happy because your kids need to see that your happy. they may not understand but it's not healthy for them if their parents arent happy together.quote
posted 5th Mar
Quoting Kaci Menchaca:" sound like our first two were big ones..Lilly came out at 361/2 weeks at 8lb 8.8oz.. so i wonder how big this one will be"
Wow she was big and early too... Hope this ones not as big for you.
Im still carrying smallish so hopefully another small compact one in her
posted 7th Mar
Just to give everyone a up date..Things have gotten a whole lot better here..My husband has been a lot better about everything now. He finally opened up to me about our sex life. He says it is not me it is him. He say due to the fact of being overseas he has learned not to over due a good thing. as in spend out time wrap up in each other in the bed room. He is getting excited about the baby and has been wrapping him self around this baby lately. I am glad to know he has taken a turn for the better.. I have even seen a change in his father and daughter relationship with our Lillian.quote
posted 7th Mar
that is good to hear!quote
posted 7th Mar
Due to my baby being on the big side and the gestational diabetes. . My dr won't let me carry past April 6th.. but ot all depends on if he gets any bigger. His head measures 37.5 wks.. his belly is 39 wks and his femurs (leg bones I guess lol) measure 35.5... we are 34.5 wks. My daughter was a lot more porportional.. so this is all new to me. I know they don't know its all predictions based on ultrasound measurements.. but the same ppl predicted a friends baby wld be almost 10lbs.. she delivered a mo early with just over 9lbs.. so they are pretty darn good at predicting. quote
posted 9th Mar
you guys should talk more.. ask him why he's upset, or acting different. let him know how your feeling. sorry, i know thats gotta be no fun. :/ communication is key.
I'm 23, and 33wks pregnant with baby (boy) #2, my first son is 6 and a half. me and my husband have been together for 9 years, married 7+. And I too KNOW what its like in the military life, My husband has been in for Almost 8 years.. and i've been with him at every move, every turn. I KNOW the demands of military lifestyle can be difficult at times, with them being gone, but it also kinda makes things better, I think. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.. kinda thing. Good luck hon.
posted 9th Mar
Im due April 20th with my 2nd, a boy this time, my daughter will turn 3 shortly after he's born- and mine is kinda the the other way around. My husband has been great and understanding and our sex life was normal during the first 2 trimesters but at the end of the 2nd trimester I started getting really big and he stopped showing interest in sex. I practically have to beg/rape him to get it, and I want it ALL the time lately. He told me when we found out I was expecting that oral was a no-no because he felt uncomfortable with the idea of it (and you know grossed out by increased vag discharge). But we're both very freaky and I can tell a difference in his moods because he's not getting it how he's used to. So we're both moody and grumpy for the same reason, how do I make him more comfortable and get mine too?? Its driving me crazy and it not like I can just get it after the babies born... not for 6 weeks, and then between our two kids schedules?? it wont get any easier, but he acts like he doesn't hear me when I try to express my displeasure with the situation as it. HELP!quote