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Quoting **Eryn Lee**:" True lol. My job sucks its in the ghetto though and everyone is mean as hell here. I got threatened ... [snip!] ... the face yesterday by a 65 yr old woman lol. They dont give you any benefits at all not even health insurance. They just suck."

then quit. Plenty of people would love your job just to have some income.

Quoting fashionista♥ 25wks:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Charlee ♥ Jensen:</b>" A friend of mine stayed home for ... [snip!] ... to work, crazy lady"</blockquote> Omg lol must have had an easy labor and recovery! I hope I feel that good too lol"

She did it with both her kids, NO Idea how she did it. I visited her at the hospital with her 2nd and she was in jeans walking around the room.
I was wearing the ugly gown the entire time not moving at all lol

Just to give you hope, I had a 4th degree tear & broke my tailbone with #1. Felt like hell for ages. I didn't even sleep in my bed for 8 weeks because I couldn't do the stairs. Anyway #2 was a bigger baby & all I got was a couple of stitches. I had over 200 with #1 (2 hrs of stitching time - grr) and I felt like I could do anything the following day. So it is possible it wont' be so bad in recovery. I HOPE you figure out more leave though regardless. Just thought it might help you stay positive to know it is very possible to have a better 2nd delivery. The only difference is I squatted to push.

Quoting Jennybananna:" then quit. Plenty of people would love your job just to have some income. "

Im going to. Im having my baby in March, I wont have a job to come back to anyways as the company is shutting down in march.