So this may be a stupid question but I have to ask!!!

Okay so me and my BD broke up about 3 months ago. He treated me like the lowest piece of crap on this big earth and I hated him so much I couldn't take it anymore. So I broke it off. I am starting ot get back into dating because I'm ready for something new. Not so much serious, but different and if it gets serious thats whatll happen I guess. There is this guy that is my best friends roommate, that looks like some kind of greek god that I would instantly drop my pants for if he ever asked. haha but luckily i have more class than that. I never thought he liked me so I was always just myself and never flirted with him or anything because I just didnt think i was in his league. Recently about 2 weeks ago I went over to his house and we talked a little bit and just hung out. Before this, he couldn't even remember my name. Well when I went over to his house he complimented saying that my hair looked great and that he noticed id dyed it since last time we talked. I was kinda shocked he even said, but it definitely made me smile. So the other day I called my bff (which is a guy btw) and his roommate decided to tell me that I should come back over and hang out with him because he enjoyed my company. Once again, shock. I asked if I could stay the night since my bd would have my son all night and he said yeah. There is a very uncomfortable futon in their room that I always sleep on when I go over there and he mentioned that as long as I don't sleep on the futon because it gets cold and he felt bad for me when i had to sleep on it. So I told him i would sleep on the couch in another room if he wanted lol and he replied nevermind. THEN yesterday I went to hang out over there and he was talking to me about my son. My BD HATED him because he thought everytime id go over there me and this guy were doing the deed. when we were not at all, and i told him that my BD hated him cuz he thought I was always on a date with him and his reply was "well you are on a date right now" with a smile and then added just joking in on that. I may be completely stupid and oblivious to this, but does anyone think he likes me? I like him alot but if he doesnt like me im not wasting my time trying to do anything. He smiles at me alot and even told my bff that he thinks im cute. I just need to know, and my bff is gonna ask him for me in a way that he doesnt know i wanna know but just so i can tell if its a waste of my time. I think this guy is an amazing person and like i said, he looks amazing. But I need some insight!!! What does everyone think?

Aww, how adorable, lol!! I miss that..a little bit anyway. But to answer your question, YES he likes you!! Now wether he's actually interested in dating or just having sex with you, there's no telling. But it's pretty obvious that he is interested in you.

Yes he likes you

Well when he talks to me he listens and seems genuinely interested. He doesn't talk me in an inappropriate way or stare at my chest like most other guys do. If he wants to listen to loud music in his room, he asks if I am okay with that first and he is very respectful to me. He has girls FALLING all over him. Not literally they just all have the same reaction I did. Difference is, I didn't try to get with him because I assumed I was not his type. He is all around very sweet to me. So if he does like me, i really hope it is not for sex. He did kinda ask me what my plans for my birthday (the 30th this month) were and before I even knew he was asking me to hang with him i told him i probably would find something to do. I didnt mean to blow him off i just didnt realize what he was asking. I'm just not sure how to get him to freaking ask me out! i will probably just wait lol

Quoting Colt's mommy:" Aww, how adorable, lol!! I miss that..a little bit anyway. But to answer your question, YES he likes ... [snip!] ... interested in dating or just having sex with you, there's no telling. But it's pretty obvious that he is interested in you. "

this is the   ... the only way to tell is to pay attention to him and what he says. If a lot of it is sexual then yeah he just wants sex. And I could be assuming but that may just be it because it was obvious he wanted you to sleep in the bed with him that night he invited you over. But idk... could be wrong.

Yes but i honestly dont think he meant sex. He was kinda hinting towards just cuddling though....GUYS ARE CONFUSING!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brittany p shelton:</b>" Well when he talks to me he listens and seems genuinely interested. He doesn't talk me in an inappropriate ... [snip!] ... i just didnt realize what he was asking. I'm just not sure how to get him to freaking ask me out! i will probably just wait lol"</blockquote>



If you keep acting oblivious to the fact he keeps trying to hang out with you or take you out on a date, he may just move on. Start flirting girl, show you like him back!

Well thats the thing! I am oblivious until the last minute. He knows I am an introvert (I don't talk much) but he still acts interested. He literally saved me a cigarette (we both smoke) for when I came over there. For just no reason, he just said he was saving his last cig for when i come over. So okay yeah he likes me, but how the hell do I flirt? I haven't dated in 4 years.

Quoting Brittany p shelton:" Okay so me and my BD broke up about 3 months ago. He treated me like the lowest piece of crap on this ... [snip!] ... I think this guy is an amazing person and like i said, he looks amazing. But I need some insight!!! What does everyone think?"

In my experience if I guy notices your hair, he is either gay, or into you   Add in the bit about wanting to "sleep" with you, I'd say he is definately into you lol. As the ladies above me said, not sure if he just wants to get some, or if he really likes you though. I would just keep flirting with him, and hangin out untill he asks you on an official date.