Quoting ★ASHLEY★:" Usually I was it with my shampoo and conditioner and then put Frizz-ez or how ever you spell it in her ... [snip!] ... she let me straighten it yesterday but I don't want to do that a lot and fry her hair. Any suggestions on what else to try? "
Try sulfate free shampoo. Target has a few really good brands. You should also try researching co-washing, it's when you don't wash with shampoo every wash and use only conditioner instead. Curly hair just needs a totally different approach. You might have to try a few different techniques until you come up with a system that works for you, but it'll be worth it if you can save her curls.