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what happened?

Sorry you're going through that   it's never easy but maybe you should just let him sleep it off and hopefully he is in a better mood tomorrow!

Quoting Third Time Mommy:" SO is so irritable tonight and it's driving me nuts. He called at 10 to say he was off work, going to ... [snip!] ... with him, but he's making me want to go sleep on the damn couch. End vent. I just needed to get my frustration out a little."

he must be on his maneriod. I hate when my husband is on his. I just had a partial hysterectomy so he is not allowed to have them anymore. lol

Ignore him and get some rest.

That's when I call my husband on it and tell him to lose his damn attitude because it's getting old and if he keeps it up to just shut the hell up lol.. And no I'm not exaggerating, I literally tell him that lol

Sounds like he's manstruating... I'm sorry you have to go through that mama  

Dont worry i go through exactly the same thing.
And all you do is bite your tongue and shut up.

App when you are preg, you are always the wrong person.
all i can say atleast you not going through this alone.
alot of women going through this  

Quoting Chandre88:" Dont worry i go through exactly the same thing. And all you do is bite your tongue and shut up. App ... [snip!] ... you are always the wrong person. all i can say atleast you not going through this alone. alot of women going through this   "

WHAT!?!?

Are you a mouse? No, you do not allow anyone to treat you poorly for anyreason and you do not treat anyone poorly for any reason. Respect one another!

No but i have noticed, if i open my mouth then i am the wrong person, and gets put on me in the end, so i just rather not bother fighting or anything.

I have had one of the most difficult first Preg anyone can have, almost lost my little girl at 20 weeks, so i am not aloud to get upset or put strain on me because put strain on the baby.

I just wish i had a more supportive partner.

Nothing i can do now. i have 9 Weeks left in my Preg. Lets hope things change.

Quoting Chandre88:" No but i have noticed, if i open my mouth then i am the wrong person, and gets put on me in the end, ... [snip!] ... I just wish i had a more supportive partner. Nothing i can do now. i have 9 Weeks left in my Preg. Lets hope things change. "

Sounds like you're stuck with a douchebag

He was never like this UNTIL i feel preg.

Worst of it, i dont know if i want the relationship anymore 

Quoting Chandre88:" No but i have noticed, if i open my mouth then i am the wrong person, and gets put on me in the end, ... [snip!] ... I just wish i had a more supportive partner. Nothing i can do now. i have 9 Weeks left in my Preg. Lets hope things change. "

First, all pregnancies are different and you can't really compare.

Second, if this is the type of person he is during this part of the game, I can only imagine what he is going to be like later.

I deal with no garbage from my husband. I would rather go round and round arguing than allow him to walk all over me and I would rather chew off my own fingers than treat him like crap just because I can.

How do i speak to someone whom keeps blaming me, and its my fault all the freaken time????

Sorry this turned into a post and run from me. My 2 year old woke up puking, so that took all the focus off his ass, by the time I was done cleaning her up and getting her back to bed I was exhausted and passed out too. It's nice to know I'm not the only one who deals with this though. And when he acts like that if I say anything about it he just says I'm being too sensitive because I'm pregnant. He woke up and went to work like nothing was wrong, so hopefully he wont be an ass tonight.

Quoting Third Time Mommy:" Sorry this turned into a post and run from me. My 2 year old woke up puking, so that took all the focus ... [snip!] ... too sensitive because I'm pregnant. He woke up and went to work like nothing was wrong, so hopefully he wont be an ass tonight."

Mine pulls that sometimes and I tell him regardless he's still a prick lol