Hubby Rant (LONG)

Why do men feel it necessary to coerce their wife into getting them off? Every night its the same thing. Hell, get me off for a change. I was only told no intercourse until I deliver.
I'm almost 8 months pregnant and still working full time and he still expects me to cook dinner every night and get his coffee ready every morning. I can barely stand. I really wish he could see that.
And on top of that, I have to watch our bank account because I saw emails between him and a hooker. I'm sorry but if he wants to be with other women, he shouldn't be with me. I do not shre well. I actually do not share my man at all. Plus our daughter will be here soon. But when I asked him about it, he said he was just curious to see if he could convince another woman to do dirty bits with him. HELLO DEAR SHE IS A HOOKER! SHE WILL FOR A PRICE!
Men are just so dense. He doesn't even see how tired I am all the time. He doesn't seem to want to spend time with me anymore and I'm not even that cranky. I love him to pieces but he is just so darn aggravating.
Plus our lease is up on the 28th next month and he is taking his sweet time helping me find a new apartment.

Ok. Done for now. Sorry it was so long.

I don't think I could put up with that.

Sounds like he's being a real douche. That hooker thing would really bother me. You need to sit down and have a conversation about everuthing. Especially with a baby almost here. Does he expect sex right after birth? Cause that's not gonna happen either.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" I don't think I could put up with that."</blockquote>

Yeah.
Wtf?!

That smurf would not fly. Period. Your daughter isn't here, but as the momma of 3 girls can tell you, you have to be a role model for your child. She will need you to be strong and expect you to set the example for how a woman should be treatedby a man. You wouldnt want that for your baby girl, so have the self respect to cut that smurf out. He needs to stop his crap and help his pregnant woman! Period.

Seriously smurf that. I wouldn't stick around. A husband shouldn't coerce their wife to do anything.

Not every man is like that. I would tell him to do it himself

I would set his ass straight. Tell him to grow up, get his own coffee, help you out a little...and if he wants to get off and you don't want to do it...tell him to do it his damn self!!! I wouldn't put up with that. You and your daughter don't deserve to be treated that way!

Quoting Brandi Milam:" Why do men feel it necessary to coerce their wife into getting them off? Every night its the same thing. ... [snip!] ... the 28th next month and he is taking his sweet time helping me find a new apartment. Ok. Done for now. Sorry it was so long."

Let me just say SmUrf THAT MESS!

I have been married nearly 8 years. We have 4yr old twins and a 2 yr old. In all the years we have been together not just married, I have NEVER given my husband a blow job. I have a terrible gag reflex and my husband knows not to ask for one. I do however WHEN I AM IN THE MOOD "play around" for a bit. I do not put out when I don't want to and I certainly don't expect him to perform like a circus monkey when he isn't feeling it either. granted, it is rare that a man will ever turn it down BUT, there are times when he is just beat and wants to sleep. How do you blame a hard working man who is exhausted?

And don't EVEN ask me what would happen if my husband was pulling that kind of crap! OH HELL NO!!!! If my husband was trying to get off with another woman hooker or not, his ass would be out the fricken door in no time flat. No questions asked!

After our twins were born we litterally had sex 6 times in a year and a half. The pp thing, we took a transfer from AZ to MT and our house wasn't ready so we lived with my parents and the girls were in the same room as us. I am not one of those that can be intimate with an audience if you follow, then a series of other events followed on top of me ending up with emergency surgery and so on. We are still very much married, in love and clearly had another child after the girls. There is much more to a marriage than just sex. If that is all your relationship is built around, there are going to be large problems later on.

Hell. No. He's propositioning hookers, he can do it from a motel. I'd kick his ass out pretty damn quick.