What to do?

So lately me and my partner have been having issues in our relationship, were constantly arguing over the same things all the time, by the end of the argument we say “sorry, I love you” and move on, but it’s becoming quite regularly now. We have 4month together and want us all to be together and be a FAMILY...

But this arguing all the time is coming between us.. it’s hard for me because we live with his mum & family and they’re always in our business if we argue or I say something wrong to him..which its none of their business anyways what we argue about!!

My parents/family live 10hours away by car so I can’t just leave and go to my parents house and I don’t have any family where we live now!! I get so depressed that sometime I think to myself that we would be better off not together and me being a single mum L I mean I know if I move back home at least I’ll my mum, dad & brother, family etc... there to help me!!

He’s such a great dad and partner when he wants to be... I wish he’ll want to move out of his mum’s and get our own places so we can actually be our own family and work our self’s out!!!

What would you do!!!

Honestly when you live with parent or in laws and have a family it's so crazy and stressful and tense ...who jut have to make it work and ask for space maybe try to find your own place .... I've been their living with the in laws with a child and husband it's crazy ....and you just have to ask the in laws o back off and out of your relationship if you can't move out right now just say its not their problem and you guys need to work it out for yourselves

It's so stressful, its like i cant be myself around his family..!
and they make me feel like i cant or dont look after my son properly or i'm doing it wrong, it really bother's me  

I'm thinking of just getting my own place and if my partner want s to come then thats his choice..!

i getting over it..!

Yup cause every one has their own opinion on how you should raise your kid even though its none of their business ...I tried to be so calm when living with in laws but it was hard I stressed till I moved out ....

Yes and i do apprecitae SOME of their concerns and if need help i'll asked them but until then they should let me and my partner rasie our baby our way..!

Imso over and its stressing :/ just with he'd move out asap!!!

Talk to him about moving out ....I had to pretty much convince my SO to move out cause we were expecting another baby and they have no room for 8plus a new born it took awhile but I got my own place now and it's not easy but it's ten time less stressful

Maybe a good sit down talking to may help..

like he say's yeah he'll move and then changes his mind when it comes time to looking for places.. makes me angry

Yup my SO did that too agrees then ill be like oh how bout this place then he'll be like I don't wanna move right now I told him to suck it upend a big sit down might help ...I know it did with my in laws for a bit anyways

Hopefuly the talks helps otherwise i dont know how long i cant live like this!

Good luck   hope it goes good