Quoting Mommy of a giggler!:" I wouldn't say anything. Maybe about the dog messes, but that's about it. It's a normal stage for ... [snip!] ... doesn't matter where you leave your child, the people you leave her with are always going to do stuff that you would NEVER do. "
That's kinda what I was thinkin. I know everyone parents different and I don't really have a problem with it, and I didn't want to pick on them and me seem ungrateful for thier help. That's why I didn't know if I should say anything or not. My mom works, and we live like 5min from my MIL who doesn't work so that is why she ends up there when we need a babysitter sometimes. I appreciate the advice everyone