For moms with the loose skin,stretchies,rolls

were/are you scared to show your body nude to your SO? has intimacy changed because of it?


I am newly pregnant, first kid always wondered how moms or news mom deal with the body change? these are just things people rarely ever talk about but I think about it already since my body is not that great to begin with lol ..

I wonder about these things

Quoting BubbleLush:" were/are you scared to show your body nude to your SO? has intimacy changed because of it? I am newly ... [snip!] ... ever talk about but I think about it already since my body is not that great to begin with lol .. I wonder about these things"

na. i get kinda shy if im having sex with a new person.... but after about 5 minutes i forget all about the jiggle. if he doesnt like it he doesnt have to smurf you

After my first marriage ended, I was SO self conscious about my stretch marks. I was thin, but my tummy was wrinkly.  

When I met my DH, he thought it was cute. He called it y "mommy tummy" and he loved it because it was a part of me and where I've been. He really eased my mind and I got over it mostly.

I worry about my body more than my SO worries about it. He likes how I look, even if I'm a little heavier than I like to be. I'm not afraid to show it to SO, though, mainly because he is so supportive of me.

It is strange the loose skin in the front parted down the middle haha the mommy sac   I think most men are thinking gross

it is a confidence killer. i get very shy.

Ya defiantly for me. However SO swears he loves my body just the way it is.
After I have my little man I'm going to do everything I can to tone up. I want to feel comfortable weather SO is fine with my body or not.
I think its just hard to act sexy and get into things when you feel self conscience and are wondering how things look during the deed.
I however put on so much weight with my first two, so I may have been more self conscious than the average.

Ive been with SO for 9 years....from 160lbs to 200lbs to 250lbs, had his child and gained 80lbs in pregnancy....breastfed our son through chemo so I had to stay as fat as I could, never really got my body back and now pregnant with our second.

SO cant NOT understand how in the world my body image bothers me regarding our sex life. He loves me, loves MY body and has never cared for a second what I look like....just what I feel like, and I feel like his he says.

Men love women. All shapes and sizes. Our insecurities are just that, OURS. It takes a better women to feel confident and loved no matter what folds, flabs, dimples or cottage cheese she has  

I have stretch marks on my butt, not from pregnancy. I'm not self conscious about them. My husband has stretch marks too so he has no room to talk  

My ex loved my stretch marks. He said they reminded him of me giving him the best thing in the world.

My new partner doesn't mind, but has said he wished he could see me how my stomach was before I got pregnant. He says I still look better then most of his friends gf's and they haven't had kids.

Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" My ex loved my stretch marks. He said they reminded him of me giving him the best thing in the world. ... [snip!] ... how my stomach was before I got pregnant. He says I still look better then most of his friends gf's and they haven't had kids."

kind of a strange thing to say lol but ok  

I like my body, only thing that made me change sexually towards my SO is my prolapse..so, we don't do any foreplay. lol

Quoting Kimber-lily:" I like my body, only thing that made me change sexually towards my SO is my prolapse..so, we don't do any foreplay. lol"

lmao ;) I too know your pain...

My DH always told me he liked my pre pregnant stomach better and wanted to to go to the gym. Well I got pregnant again so that didn't happen plus he has no room to talk he has gained more weight since we got married 2 years ago than I have both pregnancies

<blockquote><b>Quoting BubbleLush:</b>" kind of a strange thing to say lol but ok  "</blockquote>


I'm only 21 and they are a bit older than me or a bit overweight. That's his reasoning I guess