I'm bad in bed. =/

This is a super personal post, so TMI I guess? We're all grown-ups here, deal with it.
So, I'm pretty excited to report that I've ended a pretty long dry spell. It was basically the best sex I've ever had in my life, and everything he did and how in tune he was with me and my body made me realize just how seriously inexperienced I was. Haha.

I need advice on things to try with him.. I know I could easily Google stuff like this, but it would be a lot better if I knew what average guys liked instead of reading it from some website.

I also know that everybody is different and he's obviously going to have different interests than other people, but I really just have no ideas. =/

He's kind of into rougher sex but he doesn't seem to have any serious fetishes... I like rough sex for the most part but I have fibromyalgia and endometriosis so I have to be really warmed up for it.

What are some things we could do in the ways of foreplay? Any advice on things guys like "in the moment"?

TIA!

Well with DH we have what we call "slutty Jenna" and "good girl Jenna"
Haha I bring different ones out at different times. He loves it, especially when it comes to Blow jobs. He says he never knows what he's gonna get :p.
but my point is sometimes a good bj is a great starter ;).

You cannot go wrong with a good blow job. SO likes when I smack his nuts while I do that, but I realize that most guys don't. Maybe try gently cupping them while you do the rest.

He told me I gave the best blow job he ever had! Haha. Sex hurt up until about...jeez.. I guess when I was pregnant with DD? So I just never really did it, basically when whoever I was with begged me enough. But ever since her I want it all the time and I just don't know what to do with it lol. But yeah, I had to get really good at blow jobs just so I could keep boyfriends. I actually enjoy them.  

BJ's FTW!!!

my husband says confidence is the sexiest thing, flip your hair around, rub on him and then rock his socks

Quoting The Andromeda Strain:" He told me I gave the best blow job he ever had! Haha. Sex hurt up until about...jeez.. I guess when ... [snip!] ... to do with it lol. But yeah, I had to get really good at blow jobs just so I could keep boyfriends. I actually enjoy them.  "

Do it all the time! You'll get practice.

Be a tease, blow jobs are awesome. Sexy massages, get a book or google new positions to try.

lol yes, definitely a bj needs to be incorporated. with my hubs, I gently suck while grinding it on the soft part of my palate while massaging his two veg. he likes it, maybe yours will too

two words. Blow job. haha

I want to have sex too, though! Lol.

SO likes when I'm on top and really tease him. I tease him by not letting himgo in and just rubbing on the tip. He likes when he wants to go and I slow down and don't give in to it. Then once he's been teased enough I'll speed back up and let him go.

Good luck mama   have fun!!! Find your inner sexy and it'll make your outter beauty shine  

BJ's fo sho. And flick that little spot under the head of his penis, they love that.
Hold his balls while you suck it. Some guys like it if you suck the balls, I personally can't.
Do different positions.
Scratch his back in missionary.
Kiss his neck.
Rub his back naked.
Reverse cow girl.
Shower sex.
Lights on sex.
Masturbate in front of him.

Quoting lolajessup:" SO likes when I'm on top and really tease him. I tease him by not letting himgo in and just rubbing on ... [snip!] ... speed back up and let him go. Good luck mama   have fun!!! Find your inner sexy and it'll make your outter beauty shine  "

I like this idea! Thanks.  

DH likes to go down on me before we do anything - he also likes to do 69 - he likes for me to play with his nipples and pull om his ears lol - and sometimes before sex I will give a BJ but he doesnt nut - we go into having sex - I like to try different positions and try having sex on different things -