re: I need advice :'(

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I hope you arent pregnant. You dont how this will effect this kids life right now. He is 14! Yeah you ... [snip!] ... you are going to be a teen mom, but it isnt what "teen mom" is like. There is a lot more heartbreak, and A LOT LESS MONEY... "

I just love how I never said I think being a teen mom is awesome, I grew up with my mom who was a teen mom when she had me and my brother, she was an anorexic and an alchohalic and still lives with our grandparents. sounds fantastic. Yeah no, i have seen how all of this goes, i grew up with a smurf life myself. If I quote WAS pregnant, I wouldn't turn out like my mother, I would get my act together and raise my child despite how hard it would be, or heartbreaking, even if the father isnt around I would be there.

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" not to mention: no going out and hanging with your friends, no partying, probably no prom (or you will ... [snip!] ... when you have a baby, you will have to get a job to support your baby (diapers, wipes, clothes, formula, bedding, bottles....)"

woohooo, might as well get an abortion if i am pregnant, right ?! maybe thats what my mom should of done, aborted me!

Quoting nasela:" woohooo, might as well get an abortion if i am pregnant, right ?! maybe thats what my mom should of done, aborted me!"

ooook. in my PERSONAL opinion, if i were you and i found out i was pregnant, i would get an abortion.

Quoting nasela:" I just love how I never said I think being a teen mom is awesome, I grew up with my mom who was a teen ... [snip!] ... together and raise my child despite how hard it would be, or heartbreaking, even if the father isnt around I would be there."

Yeah.. ok. I said the same damn thing. Guess what. Im a single 25 year old mom, who doesnt have smurf together and is raising a soon to be 6 year old kid.

Again, you say all this stuff, but the stats are against you on this one. Talk to your mom. Get plan b if it is not too late.

Quoting nasela:" woohooo, might as well get an abortion if i am pregnant, right ?! maybe thats what my mom should of done, aborted me!"

Yeah. Abortion would be the best way to go in your situation.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Yeah. Abortion would be the best way to go in your situation. "

this.

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" ooook. in my PERSONAL opinion, if i were you and i found out i was pregnant, i would get an abortion."

i wouldn't do that, but even if i wanted to, there is no way to do it without my mom finding out and having my grandma beat the smurf out of me.

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" this. "

Watch her get defensive.... And act like I dont know what shes going through.

Quoting nasela:" i wouldn't do that, but even if i wanted to, there is no way to do it without my mom finding out and having my grandma beat the smurf out of me."

your grandma would beat the smurf out of you?

Quoting nasela:" i wouldn't do that, but even if i wanted to, there is no way to do it without my mom finding out and having my grandma beat the smurf out of me."

Why? It is your choice. Your body. And not to mention it is going to ruin this boys life. Not to mention YOURS.

<blockquote><b>Quoting nasela:</b>" I just love how I never said I think being a teen mom is awesome, I grew up with my mom who was a teen ... [snip!] ... together and raise my child despite how hard it would be, or heartbreaking, even if the father isnt around I would be there."</blockquote>


Grow up. If you don't want to listen to advice don't ask.

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" your grandma would beat the smurf out of you?"

yeah , shes always been rough on me like that.

Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting nasela:</b>" I just love how I never said I think being a ... [snip!] ... if the father isnt around I would be there."</blockquote> Grow up. If you don't want to listen to advice don't ask."

ummm ? i asked for advice, like how the smurf am i suppose to tell her. and this had nothing to do with not wanting advice, i was clearing MY LIFE up and how I would actually raise the child, not smurfing have it grow up suicidal, like how i did.

<blockquote><b>Quoting nasela:</b>" yeah , shes always been rough on me like that."</blockquote>



And you are going to bring a baby into that household rather than having an abortion and being an adult and dealing with those consequences?

Quoting nasela:" ummm ? i asked for advice, like how the smurf am i suppose to tell her. and this had nothing to do with ... [snip!] ... i was clearing MY LIFE up and how I would actually raise the child, not smurfing have it grow up suicidal, like how i did."

Just sit her down and tell her.

TRUST ME... I would have an abortion if I was in your place. I KNOW how you feel. I know you are thinking that I would never ever know how you feel because the world is falling apart all around you. But I do.