14-15 week abortion

Has anyone ever had one? I know I am having one and I'm scared. Don't mind the due date at the bottom. I've never updated my profile.

No, I havent at one that late in the game but Good luck to you. I am here if you need to talk  

I had a late term abortion at 19 weeks. It was a 2 day proceed and on the first day they inserted something into my cervix to start dilation and injected something into my womb..the next day I returned for the actual abortion. They had me to take some pills (don't remember if they told me what they were..) and I felt pretty sleepy within 30 minutes..they took me back to the OR and performed the abortion which took about 10-15 minutes. I remember feeling pain, crying, and asking them to stop but it was to late..it was a horrible experiencing for me but one I had to endure.

Quoting Crazzzy Mel:" I had a late term abortion at 19 weeks. It was a 2 day proceed and on the first day they inserted something ... [snip!] ... pain, crying, and asking them to stop but it was to late..it was a horrible experiencing for me but one I had to endure."

How awful.  

OP definitely look into what type of anesthesia they plan to use.

Quoting Amelia Margaret:" How awful.   OP definitely look into what type of anesthesia they plan to use. "

it was..I was only 15 years old at the time..I was also molested by a family member for 6 years and the pregnancy was a result of it and not telling someone sooner..my parents made it clear to me they wanted me to terminate but wouldn't say it to my face until I walked into a conversation they were having..at that point I decided an abortion was the best choice for me. I wanted to keep the baby but not at the expensive of having my rapist child ESPECIALLY my cousins..it just wasn't right..but I feel like I needed to tell you because you said it was awful.

Quoting Crazzzy Mel:" it was..I was only 15 years old at the time..I was also molested by a family member for 6 years and the ... [snip!] ... rapist child ESPECIALLY my cousins..it just wasn't right..but I feel like I needed to tell you because you said it was awful."

What a traumatic experience, I am so sorry. Are you coping pretty well with it now?

Also, wanted to clarify that I felt it was awful because of the experience you had with the actual procedure and the pain, not that I felt you were awful for doing so.

Quoting Amelia Margaret:" "

To be honest, I am coping as well as I can. I've never been to a doctor to discuss my mental stability but I do straggle with the experience every day. I haven't spoke to a counselor since '06 because it's not something I like to talk about face-to-face..my cousin is eligible for parole in 4 years and I don't think I am ready for it..

OP I am sorry for turning your post into my story..if you need information here is a link..http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/optionsabortion/a/exabortion_4.htm

Crazy Mel, I don't care  

And this is a failed condom pregnancy. I don't want too but like I sai before I have two kids and right now is terrible timing. Is that cool w u? Feels a little judgmental.

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" Crazy Mel, I don't care   And this is a failed condom pregnancy. I don't want too but like I sai before I have two kids and right now is terrible timing. Is that cool w u? Feels a little judgmental."

Screw her.   She doesnt need to know why you are getting another abortion.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" Screw her.   She doesnt need to know why you are getting another abortion. "</blockquote>




Thanks   I thought maybe I was over reacting lol

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" Screw her.   She doesnt need to ... [snip!] ... need to know why you are getting another abortion. "</blockquote> Thanks   I thought maybe I was over reacting lol"

No you werent.

I'd like to know why my comment was modded when I didn't say anything negative. All I did was state the experience of someone I knew who went through a semi-late term abortion.

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:"

It was negative. And it basically stated that if you go through iwth the abortion then you will have negative feelings about it.