re: 14-15 week abortion

Okay so instead of being realistic about what my cousin's girlfriend experienced you want to feed OP lies that it will be all sunshine and rainbows? And I thought it was positive to suggest counseling, I see a counselor for minor things and find it helps to have someone to talk to when going through hard times. She asked what people's experiences were. Are you saying we should only share positive experiences with OP? I think it's a difficult choice that can cause a lot of mixed feelings and she shouldn't go into it blindsided. She should know both people's good experiences and the ones that weren't so great. I don't see how I broke any of the forum rules in order to be modded like that. I think someone got a little mod happy. I was trying to be honest and helpful.

Quoting Miracle_Mommy 2012:" Okay so instead of being realistic about what my cousin's girlfriend experienced you want to feed OP ... [snip!] ... the forum rules in order to be modded like that. I think someone got a little mod happy. I was trying to be honest and helpful."

Who was spewing rainbows and sunshine? I told her if she needed someone to talk to, I was here for her. Not everyone iwll feel the way that she did.

Honestly, I didn't even get past your first few sentences. I've had a prior abortion. I'm well aware of everything. You should know since you read my previous post. I'm not happy about my situation but I know what's best for me and my family. And that isn't anyone else's business.

Quoting Crazzzy Mel:" it was..I was only 15 years old at the time..I was also molested by a family member for 6 years and the ... [snip!] ... rapist child ESPECIALLY my cousins..it just wasn't right..but I feel like I needed to tell you because you said it was awful."

Aww momma I'm so sorry.
Is your name Melissa? I think we have talked before and I read your story.
*Hugs*

Quoting Ollie's Mami+1:" Crazy Mel, I don't care   And this is a failed condom pregnancy. I don't want too but like I sai before I have two kids and right now is terrible timing. Is that cool w u? Feels a little judgmental."

You don't have to defend yourself or the choice you are making here.
I know this can't be easy for you and I'm keeping you in my thoughts.
I do agree that you should investigate what they'll give you to knock you out to be sure you won't suffer too much physically.
*Hugs*
Best of luck.