Quoting Jennybananna:" Just show her the research. If she still cant respect your choice then dont let her have DD alone."
I flipped out actually after a hundred times of her saying it. She stayed at my house the first week she was born to help I went to take a shower I came out and she said I gave her a little water it helped. And I freaked out I told her no water do not give her water, I had to basically freak out for her to listen to me. I guess she thinks because she is my mom and I am a new mom she knows better. But she even said about giving her water in the hospital in front of a Dr and they were like no you do not give babies water and my mom still doesn't care. It drives me nuts I wish she would respect the way I want things done with her.