Quoting Dude, you Fugly!:" He didn't "propose." He was just basically saying we've been together for awhile and his intentions ... [snip!] ... He is a VERY sensitive, sentimental person... so I know if/when he does ever propose, he will make sure it's super special! "
If he hasn't proposed
you to marry him, he has no reason to think you are engaged nor to expect you to tell people that you are. I got a cheapo dime store ring when he proposed, like the kind with an adjustable band. He tried to pick out a ring, but was worried I wouldn't like it, etc. So after I said yes & all of that, we went together to go see what he picked & get it sized, etc. I told everyone i was engaged right away & didn't really have "the ring". I would not have said I was engaged though until he did actually
propose & I did say yes
. That is kind necessary to getting engaged, someone has to be asked & the other person has to say yes.
Tell him if he wants to be engaged he has to actually