Quoting Crazzzy Mel:" Lets say you aren't a big fan of giving oral sex.. however; everyone you talk to says you are crazy ... [snip!] ... have to give it, but he would like to get it once in awhile..if not, it might turn into a problem later. what would you do?"
I am a HUGE fan of going down on my wife. So much so that I've done it over 1,000 times(yes, 1,000) in the few years that we've been together. We haven't had sex for a while now because of infidelity issues on her part. BUT while we were having sex, she HATED to give me oral. She only went down on me 12 times in the same time period that I went down on her.
As much as I like giving it is how much she HATED to give it. I like to receive as much as I like to give. I told her that I don't think that it is fair to be giving as much as I do with a once in a blue moon chance of being on the receiving end. She refused to go down on me. I told her that I would not be going down on her anymore because of that. She got very upset about it.(I won't lie, I'm very good at what I do.) I HATE that I don't give it anymore, but I don't like being on the give only and never receive end. Shortly thereafter I walked in her and another man going at it and we haven't had sex since then and are persona non grata for the foreseeable future.