Quoting Skye Wilkinson:" Ugh, he does. Maybe snappy wasnt the best word to use. Uptight maybe? Frustrated? Hes just used to getting it, now he isn't....."
Quoting Daesey:" If you're not feeling like having sex with him.... you could still "help him out" --- that always satisfies ... [snip!] ... care as much about HOW they get off as much as that they get stimulation from their partner or that you're at least involved."