Quoting Due *March 8th* w/ a boy!:" He tells me our child is going to come out with stuff wrong with him, because I take anxiety medicine ... [snip!] ... he always tells me how stupid and what not it is. I just don't know if I can take it much longer. I just want to be/feel okay."
Your SO's being a douche saying things like that to you.
Your OB is aware of all medications you are taking and you're taking them as prescribed, correct? There ARE some that are not considered safe during pregnancy, that's why I ask. Heartburn meds aren't going to kill the baby (tho again, they should only be used in moderation).
You're both young and I'm presuming this is his first as well? My DH doesn't "get" why I get worried about things when it comes to this pg and sometimes tells me I overthink things (sometimes he's joking about it, sometimes he's more serious) but when I get really upset (crying) and he knows about it (sometimes I go into another room when I'm that upset b/c being around him at those times gets me even MORE worked up) he'll USUALLY try to calm me down and say he's sorry (if it's b/c of something he did).
My DD DID have a birth defect, and it was NOT caused by ANYTHING I did (or didn't) do or take.