I have the same ? ...sometimes I get scared because my baby wont be as active as some other days. Im 24 weeks today so I cant wait until im constantly feeling her. She moves a lot, so when she doesnt I panick
I felt my first at 16 weeks I think but the second not until 19 or so. Every baby is different - plus you never know, maybe it's moving around when you're sleeping and it's still not big enough to wake you. Also, the movements were so light, I remember at my 20 week the tech saying "oh your baby is moving" and I was like hmm I guess I'm not as "in tune" as I thought!