re: Sexy and Confident

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" Smh... Never mind.. Ok?? Just forget what ... [snip!] ... say they are fat, they wouldn't be botherd because some one wears makeup because that 1st woman dosnt feel they need makeup.."

Ok, when I know the person and know how they act.. When their stuck up and think that they are God's gift to the world.. Or just think their better than everyone.. The last thing I'm going to do is make their head 10x bigger. I'm not going to tell someone (like my little sister, she has weight issues) that their fat.. I'm not that cruel.. I was big once, even though I'm not teeny tiny.. I wasn't as big as I was before. I got made fun of.. In no way did it feel good to hear stuff like that. I wouldn't do it to anyone else. But if their doing it to always be "the best" I wouldn't hesitate to let them know that they are no better than me.

Yup. Apparently I hit an unintentional nerve.

I could rephrase things a million different ways. Like
Ladies- you are beautiful just the way you are
Or
Be natural, it's sexy
Or be proud of who you are
Or
Don't fish for compliments
Or
It's sexy to love yourself
Or
You are perfect just the way you are


But regardless of the numerous ways I could have phrased my topic, there will always be people like you who are just ready to jump in for a fight to the point they can't even understand the content.

So, I'm done here, you cannot grasp the subject and I've lost interest.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Safka9973:</b>" So, I'm done here, you cannot grasp the subject and I've lost interest."</blockquote>




I understand where u are trying to come from, u say things the wrong way,
calling someone obnoxious and insecure is no where close to *ladies love urself the way u are*

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" Ok, when I know the person and know how they act.. When their stuck up and think that they are God's ... [snip!] ... else. But if their doing it to always be "the best" I wouldn't hesitate to let them know that they are no better than me."</blockquote>




I understand that,
Tricky thing about that is, someone whos obviously looking for compliments, will get the satisfaction that u even took the breath to shoot them down, if some1 I dont know is absolutley gorgeous and calling themselves ugly who knows maybe they feel ugly, I just ate a whole pack of smurfen coconut dreams cookies, its 12:30am Im gonna cry about it when I stuff my ass into my jeans and get cramps when I have to sit down in the car,
If im at my shoot tomorrow changing and I feel fat, why cant I just feel fat that day kwim???

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" Ok, all B.S. aside -- DeanJade&Maksims Momma, your children are absolutely beautiful BTW. "</blockquote>




Thankyou very much, they dont look like me at all, even the lil 1 looks like my oldest and they have diff dads, its really weird lol

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Safka9973:</b>" So, I'm done here, you cannot grasp the subject ... [snip!] ... u say things the wrong way, calling someone obnoxious and insecure is no where close to *ladies love urself the way u are*"

Ok, I come off very blunt most of the time.. I don't hold back. I'm all about honesty.. I'd want someone to be straight up with me about something.. whether it be my body, attitude, wardrobe.. !!ANYTHING PERTAINING TO MY LIFE!!.. Everyone always asks for honesty from someone they love.. and I'm not about to lie to my friends about something they want to really know.. Or sugarcoat smurf when they need to start getting serious about some issues. My best friend of 7 years has been through HELL AND BACK! A lot of decisions that she made were a lot easier with me there letting her know the full blown truth.. I guess you would just have to know me personally to get the "real me"..

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" Ok, all B.S. aside -- DeanJade&Maksims ... [snip!] ... very much, they dont look like me at all, even the lil 1 looks like my oldest and they have diff dads, its really weird lol"

Everyone says that my son looks just like me. I think so too.. But when he starts with a lil attitude and makes the same facial expressions his daddy would make.. I see nothing but Baby Daddy made all over again.. It's kinda creepy at times..

I have those "fat days" a lot around this time of the year.

Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ryloonjimama:</b>" Why are you on repeat? Clearly no-one cares."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... try to get people to stay on topic in MY threads. If you don't have anything to contribute, why are you even wasting your time?"

I think you opened up this thread with this topic fishing for compliments. Perhaps so we could agree with you that you look good. You know, same as the people who fish for compliments when they say they're ugly, fat, etc.  

Quoting Brandi Rodrick:" I think you opened up this thread with this topic fishing for compliments. Perhaps so we could agree ... [snip!] ... with you that you look good. You know, same as the people who fish for compliments when they say they're ugly, fat, etc.  "

This.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommatini.:</b>" This."</blockquote>




Bwahahahaha,
how do u girls find these things, sometimes there just *dead on*

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommatini.:</b>" This."</blockquote> Bwahahahaha, how do u girls find these things, sometimes there just *dead on*"

It's an unrecognized talent. ;)

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommatini.:</b>" It's an unrecognized talent. ;)  "</blockquote>




It really must be I stare at my photo bucket and nothing ever comes to mind to search lol