re: Sexy and Confident

Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" I love how your so quick to call someone obnoxious.. ... [snip!] ... able to read into what I am saying rather than jump over a chance to fight when in complete ignorance over what the topic is."

Like I said.. she's simple minded. I was called fat as a kid.. I grew up in life being called names. Examples: Ugly, Stupid, Retarded, Fatso, Tubby, etc. BUT I grew the hell up and I moved on. No sense in letting what others say get under your skin.. Be the bigger person and brush the smurf off!! No one on this forum knows what my childhood was like.. If I can look back and actually laugh at the times where I felt like nothing.. and laugh, I would think anyone can.. It's time to grow up and bury those "issues". I have a son to take care of and I'll be damned if a third grade memory takes away what time I have with him. Call me fat, idc!! I WILL SAY THIS THOUGH.

Don't worry, be happy  
Life's too short to be unhappy.
Plus..
The more you complain,
the longer God makes you live..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" Like I said.. she's simple minded. I was called fat as a kid.. I grew up in life being called names. ... [snip!] ... Don't worry, be happy   Life's too short to be unhappy. Plus.. The more you complain, the longer God makes you live.. "</blockquote>




The longer god makes you live. I like that

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" I love how your so quick to call someone obnoxious.. You know what I find obnoxious?? Girls thinking ... [snip!] ... fat just fishing for compliments.. won't get one from me. You should be able to tell yourself your beautiful no matter what."</blockquote>




Lol enjoy my profile much??

And lets look at how Im *too simple minded to care how others feel*
coming from someone who would tell someone they are FAT because they are the size of ur thigh 
I give alot of smurfs about how people feel, if they are anerexic and skin and bones and say they are fat, or a talking whale * what u call bigger people correct?* I reply with the same comment, sometimes people fishing for compliments really need them, it only takes a few words to make or break someone...

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" I love how your so quick to call someone obnoxious.. ... [snip!] ... same comment, sometimes people fishing for compliments really need them, it only takes a few words to make or break someone..."</blockquote>




If you are so kind hearted and always giving of compliments why are you acting like this to others? I hate the general animosity on this site. It's really sad!

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Safka9973:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims ... [snip!] ... fat, I have better things to do than put myself up on a pedestal and hope for someone just as moronic to come and back me up..."

Well hold on now.. didn't you JUST put me down? Haven't you done it to more than one person on this one thread? Your that awesome, huh? Tbh, sounds like your nothing but a hypocritical asshat to me.. You really need to find something better to do with your spare time.. Go buy some make-up..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Safka9973:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... giving of compliments why are you acting like this to others? I hate the general animosity on this site. It's really sad!"</blockquote>




Because I dont like people who come off so negative, someone reading ur post may not have the confidence or balls to tell u ur post was mean and a sad attempt to rub in peoples face that u think ur so awesome Which is great, then went to smurf when u made it a point to say that them whinning is *obnoxious* to u...

Like it should bother anyone that much to hear someone call themselves ugly,

Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" I love how your so quick to call someone obnoxious.. ... [snip!] ... same comment, sometimes people fishing for compliments really need them, it only takes a few words to make or break someone..."

Smh... Never mind.. Ok?? Just forget what was said..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" Well hold on now.. didn't you JUST put me down? Haven't you done it to more than one person on this ... [snip!] ... but a hypocritical asshat to me.. You really need to find something better to do with your spare time.. Go buy some make-up.."</blockquote>




Ahhhh I would love to but mall isn't open till 10am  

How did I put u down? Isn't that the same as u telling someone they are fat, for no reason besides the fact that u got over being put down ur entire childhood, instead of taking that experience and giving someone else a positive remark, or no remark at all, u have to be cruel and twist the knife they already have dug in themselves...

Sounds like ur bitter...

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Safka9973:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims ... [snip!] ... to say that them whinning is *obnoxious* to u... Like it should bother anyone that much to hear someone call themselves ugly,"</blockquote>




Because now it is negative to be proud and confident?
This is very unfortunate. Somehow I didn't catch the memo. I will make it a point to talk more smurf about myself and degrade myself in an attempt to seek out compliments.

Ugh, my nail beds suck  

I am bitter about that..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" Smh... Never mind.. Ok?? Just forget what was said.. "</blockquote>




Why?? Because I'm *simple minded* lol

thing about all this is *no 1 knows why people complain about themselves, only they do as an individual know why they put themselves down, it shouldn't matter to anyone if I think I'm fat, or ugly,
If a woman has great self esteem then kudos, but she wouldnt put anyone down by calling some one obnoxious because they hear them say they are fat, they wouldn't be botherd because some one wears makeup because that 1st woman dosnt feel they need makeup..

Ok, all B.S. aside -- DeanJade&Maksims Momma, your children are absolutely beautiful BTW.

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ross' Mommy:</b>" Smh... Never mind.. Ok?? Just forget what ... [snip!] ... say they are fat, they wouldn't be botherd because some one wears makeup because that 1st woman dosnt feel they need makeup.."</blockquote>




I like to stick up for people especially those who are deserving. Why do I fin this attention seeking character trait obnoxious? Because it is hurtful to others with genuine problems. If you know you're attractive and you have to put yourself down to gain a compliment, you might as well just go tell everyone who you think is beneath you how hideous you think they are because it is essentially the same thing.

Hurting others to build yourself up is ugly. Unfortunately, majority of BG=true ugliness

<blockquote><b>Quoting Safka9973:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... catch the memo. I will make it a point to talk more smurf about myself and degrade myself in an attempt to seek out compliments."</blockquote>

* all those insecure obnoxious ladies complaining? And all those women caking on tons of makeup because they think fake is beautiful?*


This is u correct?? ^

This is being negative.. if u felt so great about yourself, this coment would not be in ur head much less ur post, I feel great about myself I dont go out making post talking crap about girls who don't wear makeup, or calling them names like obnoxious, and say are whiny or insecure, a confident woman dosnt need to make such remarks...