whatever

damn it all.

uh yeah....


i would be thinking there was another girl honeslty.. why would he want to hide his smurf and then tell you to pay for something? hello its marriage.. if your a SAHM obviously you need to use his money. very sketchy

Absolutely sketchy.

Is there any way you can go online and look at your phone bill? I would be doing some more investigating...

Don't ignore your instincts. I don't even know Tim, never got to meet him but too many red flags have been going up. Please don't ignore them. You can message me on facebook.

The wrong number thing is definitely very obscure. I am not one to tell someone to start snooping, but if I were you, I would be doing a bit of investigative work!

that is sketchy as hell.
id leave, smurf being treated like you dont even exist, he probably sent flowers because he felt a little guilty...that he is sleeping with someone else, i would go ape smurf if DH was ignoring our youngest and only paying attention to the oldest.

Yes sounds like he's up to something. Can you check your phone bill?

I agree. It is very weird. I'd be suspicious and annoyed.

That's not only sketchy behavior, but a little scary tbh. I would not be comfortable living there whether he was cheating or not.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" uh yeah.... i would be thinking there was another girl honeslty.. why would he want to hide his ... [snip!] ... and then tell you to pay for something? hello its marriage.. if your a SAHM obviously you need to use his money. very sketchy"

This!

That's very sketchy but not necessarily pointing to cheating. He just sounds like he's being a dick. It is not okay for you and your son to be treated like that.

Time to Do one of the things us women do best,become a private investigator.

Quoting Calm yo tits!:" Absolutely sketchy. Is there any way you can go online and look at your phone bill? I would be doing some more investigating..."

Agreed.

You need to let him know you're not okay with the behavior. Do some searching. Do some investigating. Find out what's going on. You're is wife. You ARE his personal business. Don't let him treat you and your children like smurf.

ALL of this points to the direction of another female. You need to finally ask him straight up what's going on.

That's really sketchy.