Quoting FroggysMommy:" This. To not even help with nursing tops.... Ya know since he is okay with your oldest and not your ... [snip!] ... and he thinks its true for some wacky smurfing reason, therefore he is treating your oldest okay but not you and the youngest?"
My husband is even upset with me because I won't buy new nursing bras.
but my husband naturally has resentment towards "new babies" When my daughter was born he was ok, but when our last son was born, he didn't really touch him or look at him for like a month until I told him to basically Man the smurf up and get over it.
and then we were good. For him he see the babies as a financial burden on his part as something more he has to provide for. And that's hard for him since he doesn't think his job makes enough money. But that didn't last long.
He even left me in the hospital after our last baby came out because he freaked out so bad. Didn't come back for like 4 hours. And refused to help him in the hospital with the baby.
But like i said it lasted only about a month