Just a vent..

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Facebook sucks. However,if your fiance didn't even give you a chance to explain yourself, you're probably better off not marrying him.

What the smurf. That seems a little fishy. Either your SO is an idiot or he was really just wanted to break up with you and was waiting for an excuse to come up. I'm sorry OP, but you do sound better off without them.

It IS annoying, its sad that they were so immature to kick you the mother of their nephew, cousin and son out for something so silly. They could've at least sat you down and given you a warning first. You should look for new family, they really don't sound like they're worth a damn

I agree with the PP. He should have defended you regardless. Any he still has to support your child, despite any Facebook posts that he doesnt care for

That's absolutely ridiculous. If they wouldn't even give you a chance to explain they obviously don't need to be in your life. And he should have defended you.

they just kicked you and your son our and your SO didn't say a damn thing?..

My and my fiance have been fighting all the time. I just pushed it a little to far with everyone. I'll admit I wasnt perfect. I complained alot because they told me to start helping clean more and I felt as if I should only clean up after my fiance cand our son and myself. He did say something to them but you know I really mad him mad by doing that. I don't really blame him for it because yeah they did boss my son around all the time and I guess they thought " oh so since we live with her and boss him around she's talking about me" I just feel like they should have talked to me first. They NEVER talked to me about anything I did wrong they always told my fiance.

Quoting He's * almost * ONE!  :" My and my fiance have been fighting all the time. I just pushed it a little to far with everyone. I'll ... [snip!] ... feel like they should have talked to me first. They NEVER talked to me about anything I did wrong they always told my fiance."

I think living with family really takes it's toll on relationships. My, now, DH and I broke up several times while I was living with my father and brothers. As soon as we moved out we had no more issues that escalated to the point of breaking up. Can you call his aunt and have a woman to woman talk with her? Even if only to clear the air? I think that would be best for your relationship with everyone. Do you have anyplace to go?

Quoting Your friendly n00berhood :" I think living with family really takes it's toll on relationships. My, now, DH and I broke up several ... [snip!] ... her? Even if only to clear the air? I think that would be best for your relationship with everyone. Do you have anyplace to go?"

I'm not sure if I can talk to her or not. I just texted my babys daddy and told him i'd like to talk to them about it because its only fair if I appolgize (sp?) for what I did. I put on facebook that I was sorry for what I did and that I regret it her husband saw it and talked to my babys daddy about it hes not mad just her. its helping with my relationship alot though with me stepping up and letting everyone know I was wrong for that. I am currently staying at my grandmas

Quoting He's * almost * ONE!  :" I'm not sure if I can talk to her or not. I just texted my babys daddy and told him i'd like to talk ... [snip!] ... alot though with me stepping up and letting everyone know I was wrong for that. I am currently staying at my grandmas"

Just be careful not to become a doormat, there needs to be a happy medium where everyone knows their boundaries and knows whats expected of them. You and SO included. I think this is really just a communication problem. If I were you though, unless you absolutely must, I would stay with your grandma for a little while until things cool off and rules and boundaries are set. Walking back into a house filled with tension would be suicide for your relationship with him and his family.

The only problem with staying here at my grandmas is that it isnt safe for my son at all!. Currently though I'm not allowed at his aunts house shes really mad at me. So i will be staying here for a while. Hopefully though I cant talk to her so there wont be tension when I drop my son off at her house when he sees his daddy.

Quoting He's * almost * ONE!  :" The only problem with staying here at my grandmas is that it isnt safe for my son at all!. Currently ... [snip!] ... while. Hopefully though I cant talk to her so there wont be tension when I drop my son off at her house when he sees his daddy."

I agree about not being a doormat. Yes, you should not of posted it on Facebook but the essence of your post was correct. He is YOUR child and it is not appropriate for them to parent him in your presence. I hope that as you apoligize, you also seek a resolution to the larger problem.