Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama❍Moon:</b>" What about a 2 year old... or at what ... [snip!] ... older but she just isn't ready yet. My son was ready to transition at 13 months. He was fine. All children are different."
Yeah I think thats what it really comes down to.
This all stems from a conversation I had with a friend (who is a mom) and she was just kind of shocked that her other friend still co-slept with her 2.5 year old, saying that he just doesn't understand yet. And she thought that was crazy and said something like her baby understood at 8 months. I didn't really disagree with her or anything, just made me think about it and what we have done in the past with our kids.. and what I plan on doing with our third.