ive had it!!

At my job i see sooo many different people and get asked everyday if im pregnant. Yesterday was the last straw. This is how this went
Nurse"are you pregnant"
Me "no"
Nurse"ok your just fat then"
Me "i had a baby in september."
Nurse "wow you gained alot of weight hub?"
Me"excuse me?"
Nurse"you should be excercising alot and wear a girdle""

That's so wrong on so many levels. I was ok with myself right now. Ive excepted it. I used to have an eating disorder years ago and what this nurse said made me hate myself. Im soo done with this. I shouldnt have to change for no one! But that was it and i need to get my ass in gear.

I would tell her to mind her bussiness that was rude of her to say.

If you are comfortable with the way you are there's no need to change. I personally would had said something to the nurse like, "A you pregnant? Your belly bump is so cute but it does seem like it's a little tights and uncomfortable in those scrubs." All with a smile in my face.

Quoting Dreamer 08:" At my job i see sooo many different people and get asked everyday if im pregnant. Yesterday was the last ... [snip!] ... me hate myself. Im soo done with this. I shouldnt have to change for no one! But that was it and i need to get my ass in gear."

That was uncalled for!!

That's just freaking rude and uncalled for! I'm sorry some people are so insensitive.

I would have looked at her and said "and your a rude bitch, at least I can lose weight if I wanted but your face will always be ugly!"

She sounds very arrogant and obnoxious. Usually it's just men that are dumb enough to ask a woman if she's pregnant. Let alone keep putting her foot deeper, and deeper into her mouth.

To late now, should have asked if she had one for her lips they seem a little loose.

I almost said to lay off the stem fast diet but i don't want to lose my job.

That is rude and uncalled for but if it motivated you to be healthy then go you for taking that rude negativity and turning it into something positive!  
Exercise is not just about looks anyway, it's about being around longer for your children and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Screw those jerks and their words. You should show them up by being healthy. :]

That nurse was rude, and probably is not healthy in her own skin!