Quoting Callie L. La Hoya:" WOW.....All I can say, is I know exactly what you mean, it is difficult with MIL's because you want them ... [snip!] ... everyone can then come to a compromise. But you most definitely do NOT have to continue in this way, how uncomfortable."
Thank you. SO has had a quiet word with her about it, that was like a week and a half ago and nothing has changed. I think the day he said something to her for like half the day she was better then just slipped back into her old ways again. It is very frustrating... Also with the mountains of visitors we have had over the last month we just need a break! For the first 2ish weeks, we had multiple visitors every day... i literally had to write down who was coming at what time and make a schedule for it to make sure i could fit everyone in! I just don't see why she NEEDS to see her so much?
Like, the other day, they were talking about going on holiday and she said "we can't go for 2 weeks!? I won't be able to see lilly (my DD)" and no joking around, her actual words were "i won't be able to cope for that long" and she wans't joking around either. I mean, seriously!? what. the. smurf!? she's not YOUR kid!
see.... i told you i could go on and on about her haha! sorry
I am going to have to have a sit down chat with her and another chat with SO because I can't carry on like this!