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uhhhhh... everyone grieves differently but...

Very very weird
 
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Perfectly ok, she's trying to grieve
 
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re: uhhhhh... everyone grieves differently but...

posted 7th Jan
Quoting £egendary £ex:" What do the captions say, I can't see. That doesn't look like an actual baby though...   Looks mummified or something... Is it  "

The caption says "I sometimes wonder if she knows how much I love her."

And then somebody says "She's beautiful" And she replies "Of course she is. My princess was born an angel. She'll always be perfect"


And yes the baby is mummified.
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I have 2 kids & live in Alpharetta, Georgia
posted 7th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting Summerfrost:</b>" How does that make it ok? What if her daughter had some sort of birth defect and was born looking like ... [snip!] ... was born looking like that? What if that's the only picture she had of her daughter and that is the outfit she buried her in? "</blockquote>




Um what, that isn't a birth defect dude, lol. Don't post it on the internet if you don't want it to possibly be shared.
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 7th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):</b>" The caption says "I sometimes wonder if she knows how much I love her." And then somebody says "She's ... [snip!] ... And she replies "Of course she is. My princess was born an angel. She'll always be perfect" And yes the baby is mummified."</blockquote>




 
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I have 2 kids & live in Colorado
posted 7th Jan
Quoting Summerfrost:" How does that make it ok? What if her daughter had some sort of birth defect and was born looking like ... [snip!] ... was born looking like that? What if that's the only picture she had of her daughter and that is the outfit she buried her in? "
1. Not judging her, I was asking so someone could explain it to me, maybe there was something I was missing.

2. When did I say I knew this girl personally?

3. If you post something on the internet, it WILL turn up somewhere else. Names were blocked out, and no one in this thread is mocking her, so I don't see your point?
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Texas
posted 7th Jan
Quoting Summerfrost:" How does that make it ok? What if her daughter had some sort of birth defect and was born looking like ... [snip!] ... was born looking like that? What if that's the only picture she had of her daughter and that is the outfit she buried her in? "

Doubtful the baby is buried. It's mummified. She probably plays dress up with her.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
posted 7th Jan
Apparently a random friend of mine on facebook distantly knows the girl and the baby is kept like that, she has never buried it, and it's dried up (I'm assuming).

I didn't really know though, just from that photo alone if that was considered normal, because it just seemed a bit off to me.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Texas
posted 7th Jan
Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" Apparently a random friend of mine on facebook distantly knows the girl and the baby is kept like that, ... [snip!] ... I didn't really know though, just from that photo alone if that was considered normal, because it just seemed a bit off to me."
It seems odd to me that the baby is in a doll dress. I mean if it were my child I would want to put a baby outfit on them or make something that was baby clothing. I think she is obviously grieving and needs some help to process and let go.
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I have 2 kids & live in San Jose, California
posted 7th Jan
Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:" Apparently a random friend of mine on facebook distantly knows the girl and the baby is kept like that, ... [snip!] ... I didn't really know though, just from that photo alone if that was considered normal, because it just seemed a bit off to me."

She needs an intervention from her family and friends. It is not healthy to keep your dried up baby in your house and play dress up with it.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
posted 7th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting Ur Local Frnt Desk Clrk:</b>" Apparently a random friend of mine on facebook distantly knows the girl and the baby is kept like that, ... [snip!] ... I didn't really know though, just from that photo alone if that was considered normal, because it just seemed a bit off to me."</blockquote>




I would assume that she is not grieving well at all. It's just so sad
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in USA
posted 7th Jan
Quoting bbbt:" She needs an intervention from her family and friends. It is not healthy to keep your dried up baby in your house and play dress up with it. "


yes i agree. the baby should be buried or cremated so it can have peace.
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I'm due November 27th, have 1 child & live in Parkersburg, West Virginia
posted 7th Jan
And pretty sure the baby will eventually start to break apart and turn into dust... what will she do then? Sad sad sad. I wish someone would help her.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Kentucky
posted 7th Jan
Quoting bbbt:" She needs an intervention from her family and friends. It is not healthy to keep your dried up baby in your house and play dress up with it. "

Completely agree..
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I have 1 child & live in Oregon
posted 7th Jan
Quoting bbbt:" And pretty sure the baby will eventually start to break apart and turn into dust... what will she do then? Sad sad sad. I wish someone would help her. "

true she needs a grief counselor to help her let go. this is truly very sad I did not get closure til I buried my twins and she isn't giving herself closure keeping it around to look at everyday. To me, seeing my dead baby every day would make me feel worse than better and to me it seems more respectful to bury or cremate the baby. I hope this poor girl gets closure and that baby gets a proper resting place.  
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I'm due June 16th (a boy), have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Williamstown, Kentucky
posted 7th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting Wolf Spirit:</b>" true she needs a grief counselor to help her let go. this is truly very sad I did not get closure til ... [snip!] ... more respectful to bury or cremate the baby. I hope this poor girl gets closure and that baby gets a proper resting place.  "</blockquote>




I agree. I didn't get released from the hospital for 4 days after losing my daughter, I didn't have any closure throughout that entire time. It was a relief of sorts to bury my baby. Don't get me wrong I grieved her but if I hadn't buried her I would have had alot more issues than I do
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in USA
posted 8th Jan
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Wolf Spirit:</b>" true she needs a grief counselor to help ... [snip!] ... sorts to bury my baby. Don't get me wrong I grieved her but if I hadn't buried her I would have had alot more issues than I do"
mmhmm exactly totally agree, it helps you move on to the next phase of grief its going to be hard regardless but at least help your self come to terms with things and not dwell not a day goes by I don't think of the ones I lost and thats ok because I know they are in a better place.
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I'm due June 16th (a boy), have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Williamstown, Kentucky
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