Quoting ♥JoJo my luv♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Amanda Contento:</b>" That would be my first reaction because ... [snip!] ... was off the hook and it was not a big deal he could have traumatized his lil sister ? Yet no one seems concerned about her"
Quoting ashleeoh:" But what if he was abused as well? And he is 3, he does not understand what molesting or any of that ... [snip!] ... younger sibling should be talked to about good touch bad touch as well, assuming they are old enough to start understanding."
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Exactly. When will people realize that there is more to parenting then punishing kids?"
Quoting ashleeoh:" I agree, and I find that my daughter learns and responds much better when I sit down and talk to her ... [snip!] ... should be doing. Especially in that type of circumstance where she is not overly upset and in need of having calm down time."
Quoting ♥JoJo my luv♥:" You need to disipline I would spank him for doing that around his sister otherwise he will keep doing ... [snip!] ... even family can be gross and in most cases its someone u know dnt b to trusting with anyone good luckand discipline how u want"
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" If you are concerned that he has been touched, you can talk to your doctor about it. To me, it seems like curiosity. He knows what he has, he wanted to see if his sister is the same as him."
Quoting Sheldon & Elora's Momma:" I just want it to be known that we do not regularly spank, in fact we have never ever wanted to spank ... [snip!] ... a short discussion on what behavior is appropriate and what is not. Thank you to all of the posters who were able to stay OT."
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I'm so glad it turned out alright. I think our media saturation immediately makes us jump to the worst case scenario. "
Quoting kate & tilly:" <blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" This is one of the most ignorant statements I've read in a long time."</blockquote> I thought so too"Me too.
Quoting Amanda Contento:" That would be my first reaction because I would be shocked like WTF is my child doing naked with his ... [snip!] ... in public. All he gets is some jail time and he's out. Something needs to happen to make them realize that is a serious thing. "There is a HUGE difference between 15-16 year old and a 3 year old. If the good touch/bad touch has not been given how in the world is a 3 year old supposed to know that being naked with anyone is bad? Has he been told before not to take his sister's clothes off? He may have just been curious. Usually kids that age start to figure out that boys and girls are different. Have a talk with the kid yes, hit the kid no.