Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I wouldn't do it. That sounds like a huge potential mess right there."
Quoting Ole' No Name:" Yeah, I really don't want to do it. I'm just afraid I'll hurt her feelings because I was cool with the idea before. SO is NOT okay with it, we actually argued when I told him she called."
Quoting Red Bottom:" I can see you being taken to court for child support for this. #1 he's your boyfriend, not your husband. ... [snip!] ... okay with this....yet they have a few grand to hand you when it's all said and done? I see this being on dateline in 5 years. "