double post

**Double post**

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" So, here's the story. Sorry if it's long. I've asked my SO for a lifestyle change. I feel like some ... [snip!] ... the simple fact is they don't clean. Their house is a hell hole. and theres like 10 people living there. I'm stuck. So stuck."</blockquote>



You will be miserable if you house share. You wont be able to do anything you want with the house. Then you'll have his friends as well as so's. Trust me when I tell you some men who get into this cycle never get out. When you've had the baby it will be a nightmare. You don't say how old you are but this sounds like the behaviour of an 18/19 year old. I know you must love him but I think you've got a very difficult choice here but you need to put the safety if your child first and this really won't be a safe environment for lo. Perhaps you need to sit him down and give him an ultimatum.

Quoting Lisa Holdridge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" So, here's the story. Sorry if it's long. ... [snip!] ... child first and this really won't be a safe environment for lo. Perhaps you need to sit him down and give him an ultimatum."

I'm thinking about it. I'm 20, he's 25 and LO is 2.

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" I'm thinking about it. I'm 20, he's 25 and LO is 2."</blockquote>



Sorry I thought you were expecting!! Yeah I think he should've grown out of sessioning by now. Does lo sleep in your room? I'd be so paranoid I wouldn't be able to leave mine in a room on their own if there was all those people around I'd be too paranoid. It must be driving you mad!!!