Quoting BubbleLush:" ... sheesh"
My friend and her son were in the Aurora theater shooting. The next day she went out shopping and WOULD NOT speak about what happened. Her son went and finished the movie 2 days later. They were "going through the motions" of life... but in private they had some pretty horrible moments. My fried finally went to a movie not too long ago and she could barely sit through it. She did know someone that did actually die too. But then there are days that shes out doing her regular stuff.... happy and herself.
People grieve differently and respond to situations like that differently. I dont think I could let Lily go to a movie after 2 days... but for her son he needed to go in order to get on in life. So point proven.. people do respond differently.
Its sickening to say that people arent grieving the "correct" way.