Quoting C-Fab|MoM to HD|:" I highly doubt it,I live in a fathers rights state and they basically don't care how smurffy the father ... [snip!] ... he was kicked out of the military when DD was a baby for refusing to get clean from drugs and that meant nothing to the Judge,"
Yeah, coz that's such a great influence on a kids life.
Smurf I'm sorry OP. I know I'm terrified of ever breaking up with SO because I wouldn't want my kid away from me and he's a good father, I can't imagine what it would be like if he wasn't taking care of him. You, as the childs mother, should have the right to say he can't see her until he starts parenting her right.