Quoting khigh:" You two are at separate points in your life and I would probably leave and find someone who is closer ... [snip!] ... is closer to you. It's why I realized I like older men. They tend to have steadier jobs, finished having children, house, etc."
Quoting CerealMakerWife♥:" He seems lazy. My DH has always had a full time job even while in school."
Quoting C410:" May I ask how old you are, and what is your relationship status with your boyfriend / husband and how ... [snip!] ... right now? I have been thinking that too, I do tend to like older men. The security and his family upbringing is killing me."
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" i have always liked older men. whether they be 2 years my elder, or 10. it seems like he just has a ... [snip!] ... children - are his parents going to be around then? will he just take the baby to see them w/o you? it just seems a little off."
Quoting CerealMakerWife♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting C410:</b>" What's DH, and is he also younger?"</blockquote> Dear husband. We are both 26 met at 18."
Quoting C410:" It's been a year, and we never ate as a family. We ate together...with other people, but his family ... [snip!] ... me as I feel his work ethic isn't as big as mine, nor his family is as close as mine. I wonder if it is because of his age?"
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" i just read your profile, is he Chinese too, or no? Cause I think you being Chinese, and having non-native ... [snip!] ... is much stronger than pretty much any American, and that your family has much different family values than a lot of Americans."