So my babys father and i are not together. I cant stand his or his family views. they are so hateful to others. they think if your not a baptist you'll go to hell, or if your democrat or liberal your going to hell. I was born in Mexico but had dual citizenship till i was 18 then had to choose. He always talks about how Mexicans shouldn't be in America etc. Like really what kind of people are so close minded? They think being gay/lesbian is a choice and its the worst thing you could possibly be. I was raised voluntarily by a lesbian couple who were by far better people then his family. They even found out that their daughter was raped right after it happened and did nothing because it was her moms best friends mom. it just continued. I NEVER want these people around my child. Anyways sometimes I'm not to sure i can be a good mom. i just want whats bet for my kid and i know i don't have a whole lot to give. I don't have any support and decided to let my ex know how i was feeling. So all of a sudden he says that if i get an abortion he will physically hurt me, and that i cant give my son up and he will take him from me because he has proof that i don't want my son, (just because i don't know about being a mother) He lives in VA and is in the MC and didnt want anything to do with my son before so now it just hurts that he would say all these things. And it will be over my dead body my son gets raised to be a racist moron like the rest of his familly
Don't worry about him and please enjoy your pregnancy. Ive had two douches as kids dads and made the horrible mistake of letting that get in the way. We've all made mistakes . I would seriously cut all contact with the man and your life will improve tremendously. Talk is cheap and all they want to do is run their mouths. I would not want myself nor my child around that sort of hateful unchristian person. I know I'm not perfect, nobody is, but it's not my place to judge another human being. Xoxoxoxox.
his family sounds icky! start looking into lawyers now and get on board with one now so you have help later if he pursues visitation or rights as a father. if you are strapped for cash you can look into women's shelters and usually they have good resources like probono attorneys. I would also recommend not putting him on the birth certificate even if you plan on reconnecting with him at some point. I would not want my kid with racist white supremacists either, yuck :-(
don't worry about him, ca is mom friendly and he can't do smurffe, he's just trying to manipulate you.