Uncomfortable

I've know my SO for 4 years now , needless to say I'm pretty comfortable with him. But when it comes to giving head or going on top I can't bring myself to be able to. I feel extremely uncomfortable like I'm not good enough [ he's unfortunately been with quite a few girls ] I''ve never had this problem with anyone else & besides the obvious of 'talking to him' how can I get over this ?

Things are always easier when you're drunk..lol. So maybe if you get tipsy and gain the courage to give him head or ride him..it'll be easier next time.

I'm the same way about being on top. I hate it. I feel like I'm terrible at it and feel uncoordinated for some reason.

Quoting Peyton's~Mom:" I'm the same way about being on top. I hate it. I feel like I'm terrible at it and feel uncoordinated for some reason."

Exactly! But he's the only one I've been afraid to go on top with. I have a few times but it's been awhile. We broke up for several months & now I feel worse then ever about doing it :/

Quoting Heather[♡]:" Exactly! But he's the only one I've been afraid to go on top with. I have a few times but it's been awhile. We broke up for several months & now I feel worse then ever about doing it :/"

I NEVER get on top. SO bitches that I don't "initiate" sex, but I know if I do, I'll have to get on top.. As bad as it sounds. lol
I think maybe it's bc my legs are so short and he's a lot bigger than me, it just throws me off.. And I get tired after like 2 mins. lol

Quoting Peyton's~Mom:" I NEVER get on top. SO bitches that I don't "initiate" sex, but I know if I do, I'll have to get on ... [snip!] ... it's bc my legs are so short and he's a lot bigger than me, it just throws me off.. And I get tired after like 2 mins. lol"

LOL. I also get tired quick, probably even quicker now since I haven't done it in forever. Really though I feel bad but I just can't do it . Alcohol gets me a little braver but not much, lol