with your relationship? By this I mean, do you feel that you're getting everything out of your relationship that you've hoped for? Or do you feel like you're "settling"?

I know when I was with BD, I thought I was "happy" but I always thought in the back of my mind that I was going to be settling had I ended up with him. Thank God it didn't work and now I don't have to deal with his immature shenasmurfns anymore. Now, I am definitely very satisfied in my relationship and do not feel those same feelings that I used to with BD. Even though we haven't been together as long as BD and I were, I would seriously have no problem being with SO for the rest of my life.

There's a lot of things I am missing affection wise. But we're working on it.

how are you going to get me a cake?

Absolutely. I zeroed in on him largely because of his potential as an all-encompassing mate and he's more than delivered.

Quoting skomula:" how are you going to get me a cake?"

Damn, I didn't think this through!

Very, very satisfied in every way.

This is the first relationship I've ever had that I was 100% satisfied in every way.

Yes I'm definitely satisfied. I use to pick at the small things that annoyed me about my SO but after joining this site and hearing all the horrible stories of how guys treat their girlfriends/wives I'm definitely lucky! I have a great man and we have a great relationship.

Quoting ♥ pinkman:" Damn, I didn't think this through!"

Well, you're not that far away....just bring it up here....

I am more than satisfied. Been with DH for going on 5 years now, never been happier.

Quoting skomula:" Well, you're not that far away....just bring it up here.... "

Alright, sounds good. I'm pretty up high in north OH so it won't take long   

Couldn't be more so.

We are so bonded.


It took divorces for each of us with failed relationships to find out what we really wanted and needed.

I feel like I am always doing everything all the time. all the "woman" things....but the fact that he just puts on his boots and goes wherever without asking or just does his thing and expects me to be here to take care of our kid (which of course I would) but if I just left the house he would freak, I have to tell him plenty in advance. Also seriously sitting on the sm*rfing couch drinking beer everynight and not even playing with your son or making it feel like such a chore when i ask so I can make the d*mn supper.....Sorry just ranting so yeah... not satified. I just feel used.

I'm so happy to hear all these responses. That's awesome!   

I'll be waiting...You can't promise a pregnant woman cake and not give her cake!