need it

So......SO and i havent had much of a sex life since i had LO.....shes almost 5 months..part of it is cuz im too tired from having to get up with baby all the time and working and keeping up on everything at the house...the other part is i just dont feel as confident about myself as i used to...i feel like i look like i got attacked by a cat   any tricks to get us both in the mood? I almost feel like i need to drink after LO goes to bed so i dont care so much :S

just relax, i know its harder done than said, but ill bet your body looks a whole lot better to him than it does to you! maybe try doing your hair it i seriously changed my point of view on how i looked, and how i felt about myself quickly.

Fake it til you make it.
Acting confident is really all it takes sometimes.
I've come to terms with my mom body. Yes, I have stretchmarks, yes I have flab and saggy things. But I'm ok with that. I wouldn't have any of it if I didn't have my daughter.
And DH loves me more because of it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting nightshaderebel:</b>" just relax, i know its harder done than said, but ill bet your body looks a whole lot better to him than ... [snip!] ... to you! maybe try doing your hair it i seriously changed my point of view on how i looked, and how i felt about myself quickly."</blockquote>



I have changed my hair entirely atleast 4 times in the past 4 months lol. One of the perks of being a stylist ;) it helps me for a day or 2, but im just more confident with clothes on, i know i look good...but as soon as they come off i feel like the fatty in class n think hes just lookin at my flawed skin

then honey, its time for an underbust corset! it covers the tiger scratches on the belly. :-P i love mine, i wear them all the time right now, because they hold in that extra skin, and help decrease it as well. besides, who doesnt feel sexy as hell in a corset?!?

<blockquote><b>Quoting nightshaderebel:</b>" then honey, its time for an underbust corset! it covers the tiger scratches on the belly. :-P i love ... [snip!] ... now, because they hold in that extra skin, and help decrease it as well. besides, who doesnt feel sexy as hell in a corset?!?"</blockquote>

Thank you! I now have an excuse to shop!

best part is, im 3 weeks post partum, and already have my waistline back because of it. corsets are a life saver.   if i were a doctor id prescribe them to everyone. lol