Thinking

I split up with DD's father a couple of weeks ago. I still love him but I haven't been 'in love' with him for a looong time. So I have a male friend who I have known for two years, always texts me etc. And now I'm single he's made it clear he likes me and always has. And yeah, I have a crush on him and he makes me feel butterflies etc... But is it too soon to get involved with someone? Would it just be a rebound thing? I don't know whether to get involved or not. Although it seems I already kind of am...

take it slow! casually date, until you are ready to get more involved

Everyone one moves on in there own time. If you feel like you're ready go for it. You guys can go on a date and go from there. Some people may judge you but honestly who cares?

To me, that's way too fast.

If you feel ready, go for it. Technically, my current relationship would be considered a "rebound", but we don't see it that way.

Even though you just broke up a couple weeks ago, you say you haven't felt anything for him in a long time. ---- So, it could very well be that you're ready to move on & move past your last relationship.

Still, if you're worried, I would seriously just take it slow. Hang out w/each other. Go on a couple dates alone. Do a couple of things together w/DD (to see how they interact). And just see where things lead

No sense ruining a good friendship on an impulse.

Quoting Daesey:" Even though you just broke up a couple weeks ago, you say you haven't felt anything for him in a long ... [snip!] ... together w/DD (to see how they interact). And just see where things lead No sense ruining a good friendship on an impulse."

Yeah, I might just meet up and see how it goes but I don't want to rush into anything after how crappy the last relationship was...

Thanks