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Honesty about sex quality

posted 6th Jan
My DH and I had some afternoon delight but he finished before me and asked if I enjoyed it. I told him it could've been better ( ) and he agreed with me. This led to me wondering if you're honest with your partner about the quality of your sex if they ask.
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posted 6th Jan
Yep sometimes one world is a little more rocked than the others. It happens
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I have 2 kids & live in San Jose, California
posted 6th Jan
Not really. I mean, he knows I rarely get off, and its been over a year since my last O during sex, but he's inexperienced and unwilling to learn any new tricks. So instead of making him feel too bad, I just tell him I enjoyed it and go along with my day. Besides, if I told him I didn't enjoy it, I would get it less than I do now.
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in ALTUS AFB, Oklahoma
posted 6th Jan
Yep. Always honest. And I'd Something is off during the act I let him know sonhe can make adjustments, and vice versa.
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I have 3 kids & live in Webster, Massachusetts
posted 6th Jan
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" Not really. I mean, he knows I rarely get off, and its been over a year since my last O during sex, but ... [snip!] ... tell him I enjoyed it and go along with my day. Besides, if I told him I didn't enjoy it, I would get it less than I do now. "
We've been together for 10 years so maybe that's why it's just a "Well, that sucked. You could do better."  
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posted 6th Jan
Absolutely. We talk about it a lot. We both want the other to be satisfied and know communication is the key to achieving that.
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I have 1 child & live in Kansas City, Missouri
posted 6th Jan
Always, but he also makes sure I get off at least once before he does. I've never had any complaints.  
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I have 1 child & live in New Hampshire
posted 6th Jan
If i don't get one, I always tell him he owes me. And when he makes up fo r it, boy does he make up for it
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Boston, Massachusetts
posted 6th Jan
It had been awhile so it was basically an in-out-in-out-SPLOOT kind of sex.
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posted 6th Jan
he doesn't ask. if he did, i'd say it was great. i don't always get off during just the sex act if there is no other stimulation on my parts, but i have a good time anyway, and i enjoy doing it. so, it's fine with me. if he asked and i had finished as well, i would be like, "it was super awesome." but... he's never asked. so, i doubt he will anytime soon.

oh, sometimes he asks during it. he'll be like, "oh, you like that?" if he is doing something new/different, and i'll be like, "oh totally" even if i don't. but usually i do.
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 6th Jan
I sure am. I'm not going to lie and say it was amazing when it wasn't. It is most of the time but when he finishes before me and can't keep going, I get bummed and he knows.
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I have 1 child & live in Kópavogur, Iceland
posted 6th Jan
We're always honest with each other. How is it supposed to get better if we don't communicate with each other about it? It's amazing 99% of the time anyway but sometimes we have our off days and we can usually both tell when it's one of those times.
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posted 6th Jan
Yes, we are both pretty straight-forward about it. He takes care of me first most times, but if not he makes sure to use his hands or something so I get mine. I feel like if I told him it was great when it wasn't, I'd be screwing myself outta pleasure, then I wouldn't wanna please him as much.
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I have 1 child & live in Bristol, Tennessee
posted 6th Jan
We are as honest as possible and sometimes we joke about it   we now have a little inside joke about one time. Sometimes he will look at me and smile and say 'it will only take a second' and vice versa because one time I wasn't in the mood and he wanted some and he told me that it was only going to take a second and well, he did not lie. He barely got the tip in and he was finished, both of us laughed so hard and it has now turned into a joke  
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I have 4 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Oklahoma
posted 6th Jan
Yes. Normally, it's me being more blunt than him but yes. DH is more how often not quality.
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I'm due April 24th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Louisville, Kentucky
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