re: Honesty about sex quality

We have such hot sex I don't need to O! Lol
But I'm 100% honest with him. In the beginning our sex life was often but not good for me and I told him. Which is why it's so great now. It doesn't help anyone to lie.

Quoting MommaNoodle:" he doesn't ask. if he did, i'd say it was great. i don't always get off during just the sex act if there ... [snip!] ... "oh, you like that?" if he is doing something new/different, and i'll be like, "oh totally" even if i don't. but usually i do."

This. I dont like to make him feel bad.

Although there was one AWESOME time, and I was so close... and he finished because he thought I had. I was so, smurfing, frustrated after that... he knew I hadnt finished and felt bad, lol.

Yes I am. I cannot imagine being married for as long as we have if I had to lie about it.